Questioning the words that he has truthfully stated to you feels to him like you are accusing him of lying.
This makes him angry two ways:
1) Unless given reason to act otherwise, people in their daily interactions with each other take each other's words at face value.
When the greeter at Wal-Mart says to me "Welcome to Wal-Mart", my reaction is not to think "What did he mean by that?"
You are denying your boyfriend the courtesy that you routinely extend to complete strangers all day long and everywhere you go. Your only reason for doing this us that is because he is your boyfriend.
2) You are his girlfriend. He cares for you. He wants to care for you. It causes him pain when you reject the kind words he has to say to you.
I understand that you have insecurities. We all have insecurities. Letting your insecurities harm your relationships is self destructive. In order to keep calling yourself his girlfriend, you must learn to accept his kindness.
Questioning a good word is an insult.
You could make it more clear next time, by just slapping his face instead.
Constant questioning can get really annoying really quick. He probably feels like you don't trust him. I understand the trust issues. I have some of my own. But when you decide to start a relationship with someone you have to try to leave that stuff in the past. And it's easier said than done, I know.
He's thinking u need to shut up & take the compliment
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