Why does my boyfriend wants me to be barefoot all the time?

I love being barefoot, really i do. But its getting really chilly here and my feet start to get cold, i used to be barefoot in the cold snow but now its too much :( He didn't said anything until i started to put socks on, now he's asking me why im not barefoot and if i could take them off. I really like him and his pretty hot. Does he have a foot fetish? i woulndt mind it, dont care, but only the have a heads up.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • My Boyfriend is exactly like yours haha
    Never thought there would be someone else with this really special "problem".

    I met my boyfriend first time in February at school. He was new, one class higher and a year older (15) than me.
    Don't know why but I was the first person he spoke to. He asked me where he can find the main entrance and I couldn't believe how hot he was. I showed him the way and we talked funny.
    It toked just 3 weeks and we got in love :D

    While school was in spring Break and the temperature got above 10°C outside, he sayed to me that he often thinks about how I would look barefoot and in tight jeans.
    Untill this moment he never saw me without socks/shoes and I wondered why he had THIS question at this time of the year in his mind.
    I asked him and he said (a little shy) that he believes that there be beautyfull/sexy feet in my socks - like me. *.* And that he likes little feet like mine and the barefoot style.
    As a girl with 14 years old I never thought just a second about my feet, a "barefoot style" or that anyone would like to see them lol
    But it came from the boy that I love more than anything else and so it was Okay for me.
    I pulled off my socks off and in his eyes I could saw that he seems to like what he see. His big smile was so nice and cute *.* And lol yeah I think I enjoyed it a bit that he likes my little bare feet hihi
    I asked him if he likes what he see and he answered "Babe I really never saw any feet that where so damn cute and hot like your feet are. They are really beautiful and I would do everything for you to could see them all the time!"
    Wow did he sayed that about my FEET? Really?
    Okay I liked my feet anyway cos they are that small and cute (US 5.5) and got a natural beauty but I never thought that my boyfriend would even check out them. But I liked the fact that he really likes such a special thing on me hihi.
    We started talking about this feet thing and after a short time I understood what his dream looks like.
    It's just that simple - Me without shoe's (socks) everywhere and always - best? If I would give away all of my socks and shoes.
    *Stop*
    I stopped the conversation and I could saw that he was nervous about my reaction and that he thought it was to crazy and weird to me what he likes and "wanted" from me.
    I looked in his eyes, than down to my feet and back to him.
    "You don't have to it's just a..." he tried to start a way out but I crashed in with the words...

    to be continued...

    • "Okay Babe." His eye got bigger and bigger "If you really like them that much and if this is how I could make you happy - I will do it." My smile shows him that I'm not saying that just for him. Okay I never had done what I did than without him but I was cool with his love for my feet. So I stand up and started to put out my socks in a waste bag. After that I started to collect ALL my shoes an asked him if he could take them to the trash. He takes the bags without a word and looked at my bare feet. He kissed me lovely and toked all of my socks and shoes into the big trash container outside the house. I stared on my feet and thought "Damn what I am doing here? Haha and why I didn't let a safety pair of flip flops here? Oh dear..." 5 min later my boyfriend came back to my house and told me "Mission accomplished". We talked more about what he likes to bare feet and so I started painting my toenails in hot red.

    • Okay. That changed my view on my feet A LOT. Really. Why? Because my cute and little feet transformed into sexy and hot looking ones. Not kidding. :D The red Polish killed it. And my boyfriend loved it a lot hehe Thanks God for having my parents on a sea cruise for next 9 days at this time. They would freak out of I would go out just barefoot haha. Next day we decided to meet up with two friends of us in the city and I realized the first time that there is no way out for me as going on bare feet lol But I also realized that it's looking a lot better than I expected to see me in long blue jeans, sweater, small jacket and red painted toes barefoot in the mirror :D No joke - I really loved to see myself for the first time in this barefoot style *.* It really doesn't looked like there is something missing at my feet lol No my bare feet matched perfect to me and I had to smile :D the hit red Polish and the jeans - perfect :D

    • My boyfriend was in heaven as I got out my room and he saw me for the first time in my new look. "Thanks babe thanks a lot for doing this for me. I never thought that this could be happening and now I see my beautiful girl in the most perfect look possible. Wow" This words got me motivated more to do it. He toked his Airmax on and we leaved my house. The first step on the cold stone stairs was amazing. I never got barefoot anywhere else than beach or park before and now I'm going to have my first barefoot day on street haha. We got out of the stairs and my feet had the first contact to the ground outside. Brrr. 9°C welcomed me with cold wind. The street was really cold and I was a bit shocked. My boyfriend saw it and says I don't have to do it. But I smiled and sayed that I want to do it. I would care about the weather. And I didn't. My feet got really cold after a while and the hard surface punished my weak soles

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  • Many assume the person has a foot fetish, but another possibility is called aretifism. This is being sexually attracted to a barefoot person.

    Aretifism differs from a foot fetish in that the attraction is to the barefoot person, whereas a foot fetish is more focused on the bare feet.

Most Helpful Guys

  • That is without a doubt a die hard foot fetish right there. It is perceived as an embarrassing fetish to have so he is likely too ashamed to admit it directly. I think the ball is going to be in your court to bring up the subject. It's great that you are okay with it, but I am sure he is afraid you will be "weirded out" by the notion.

    Kinks and fetishes are important in keeping things interesting or entertaining so maybe share something that you like and open up that conversation. Try not to put him on the spot!

  • Does he want you pregnant as well? Lol...
    He probably DOES have some sort of fetish with your feet. Does he stare at the feet of other girls too?

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  • Your boyfriend sounds like my husband. My husband wants me to be barefoot all of the time, and I am happy to be barefoot for him. He thinks my bare feet are sexy and he never wants me to cover them. So I don't. I go anywhere he asks me to go barefoot, and it doesn't matter if it's winter or summer. I decorate my little feet with barefoot sandals jewelry, or I wear an anklet and toe rings. He also has a thing for my tummy and belly button. So, My midriff and belly button are always bare and exposed... everywhere I go... no matter the time of year. It will probably come as no surprise that he doesn't like me to wear pants l... only skirts... and he doesn't want me wearing panties or a bra.

    I have been doing this since we met in college. We were in a class together and he asked me to go to a coffee shop with him one afternoon. He told me he liked how my feet looked in the t-strap thong sandals I was wearing. He went on to tell me he liked it when women went barefoot, and he also told me he liked it when women wore bare belly tops. The next day, I went to class in my bare feet, and I wore a short little bare midriff top to show my belly button. My best friend came by my room because we always walked to that class together. She took one look at me and couldn't believe I was going to class in bare feet and such a short crop top. She said it was way too revealing for class. But I didn't care, I was determined to get this guy's attention. I felt embarrassed when I walked into class, but that feeling immediately went away when I saw the smile on Kevin's face.

  • Door fetish alart

  • foot fettish probably

  • He is obsessed with your foot lol

  • I have a foot fetish and yes he has a foot fetish if he wants you to go around barefoot. I love to see that and especially if their soles get a little dirty