Why do guys like 'innocent' girls?

[Anonymous]

I'm a virgin and i've never had my first kiss and the guy i have a thing with thinks it's really cute that i haven't done anything. I don't get it, why do guys like inexperienced 'innocent' girls?

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*and he's more experienced

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**he wants to be my firstkiss but is it jist because hew ants to be my first or because he likes me for who i am?

[Man_Over_Game]

Being desired is sexy. Being desired by someone who SHOULDN'T is even sexier.

Maids, nurses, schoolgirls, virgins; each have their own reasons for not engaging in sex, but if they ignore that then it insinuates a sort of 'primal' desire. Like saying "I don't give a fuck about the circumstances, I really want to fuck you".

Sluts want sex from anything available. It makes the mutual desire kind of... diluted, in a way. Why should the sex feel special, if it's her fourth time this day with this fourth guy?

Some people are into the idea of having a sexually addicted partner, others like the idea of convincing someone to do what isn't natural for them for the sake of lust or love.

Not saying he wants into your pants, just saying that's why the idea of a woman's virginity is so coveted.

[Man_Over_Game]

I wouldn't want to pressure a girl into kissing me, but that's just me.
Just like sex, if it happens, cool, if not, then whatever.
He probably is interested in you, and not just for the whole "virginity" thing. Give him a chance. If he's a decent guy, he'll go at your pace, not his.

[Cressey]

Usually inexperienced guys like inexperienced girls as they feel it's an even playing field, that's how I'd see it anyway as I'm pretty inexperienced myself and a girl with a lot of experience would be intimidating.

[fromtheashes87]

you don't need to be intimidated just find a girl that likes the idea of "training" you. you get some good sex, pointers, and experience and she gets to feel like she's in control and can teach you what she likes. girls usually won't do this to a guy whom they think is experienced. can't explain why.

[Cressey]

@fromtheashes87 That seems so unmanly though, surely that turns off girls?

[fromtheashes87]

not really. I actually was a f buddy with a guy that was 22 for just this reason. I probably wouldn't have given him a chance but he told me he had only been with two women and wanted to learn. I thought it was cute so I gave him a chance. he listened to what I had to say, we did a lot of experimenting and he had me squirting by our second time. I got to know him really well to we would talk for hours and we really hit it off. might have gone somewhere if he didn't get deployed

[Cressey]

Ah that's good, wish there was more women like you near me :) x @fromtheashes87

[SatanSenpai]

I don't know but to me it's creepy. especially when they like younger, pettite girls. reminds me of a Lolita complex which is disturbing.

[Remonster]

You're looking at it from the wrong angle. Lolita complex doesn't have to do with inexperience but with young bodies, which indeed is disturbing. But the guy is probably just excited that he can teach her his skills and he just finds it cute. It's less intimidating for a guy I suppose.

[SatanSenpai]

true

[1GuyOpinion]

It the feeling of corrupting that innocent that give me a satisfied feeling.

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[BertMacklinFBI]

probably because they link innocence with being extremely cute.

[ongie]

Some guys don't like inexperienced innocent girls. It's all about the person you're seeing. Don't let it get to your head.

[Words_and_Wisdom]

I personally like sluts more than I do 'innocent' girls. I love a girl who's already experienced with sex, especially those who are extremely raunchy.

[Anonymous]

They want to be the first in, it's perverted.

[fromtheashes87]

where are you from?

[Opinion Owner]

@fromtheashes87 erm, why?