Why is it that some guys will take forever to ask someone out?

[Anonymous]

I'm so close I feel to being asked out but it hasn't happened yet. its been 4 months. why is it you take so long sometimes?

[ArtistBboy]

Evaluating if the woman has good traits or bad traits.

If I say you have good traits in 1 day and start dating you (but you have bad traits)- that is disaster down the road and we will probably break up in the worst way possible.

If I say you have bad traits in 1 day and start dating you (but you have good traits)- I didn't give you a chance, and classified you like everyone else, which isn't right.

He knows you are interested and is keeping it suspenseful yet fulfilling (you are hopeful that you will be asked out). Just be patient and let the man "do-his-thing" while also contributing your own ideas and originality so you grow together.

Best regards,

ArtistBBoy

[iveth]

I agree with him sometimes guys just want time to get to kno a girl inside and out because they don't want to end up with something they don't really like. but just be paitient he will ask you out sooner or later his prabably kind of nervis too.

[advicegiver]

Because some guys are just shy, and they may not be sure that you like them back. Even if they know you like them, it can be hard for them to work up the confidence sometimes. My advice: ask THEM out once in awhile; there's no rule against it, and lots of guys appreciate it.

[lewischick_2010]

It's obvious that you like him. Duh. haha. but it usually takes guys a while to get the hint or get the guts to do this. My boyfriend, it took him sevral months to get the guts to ask me. but he finally did. Juss give it time. or juss come out and ask about it.

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[Kotten]

Why is it that you won't ask that guy out if you're feeling "so close"?

[Asker]

I want him to be ready... I'm attempted to but I want him to be ready... besides how would I do it?

[WeaponZero]

How about you do the asking.