MF finna hate me for this 1, but as usual "mistninja314" gives no fucks ^^.
If I'm being honest with myself, black women look the best bar none/no contest. We have the best natural bodies, we come in all skin tones, but white, if I'm right, we can get any hairstyle that we want, granted that we might need some products etc y'all see where I'm going with this.
Let me see, You have natural looking black women which I adore/LOVE like @Mgoods @Creole_Flavor COOL ^^. THEN YOU HAVE the sisters, that'll wear those nasty long ladybug eyelashes, fake nails, Straight haired 50 INCH WEAVES KNOWING DAMN WELL that hair texture doesn't even belong on our heads LOL
When I think of a black WOMAN, a certain "image pops up in my head" (Mgoods) would be a perfect example of that/it. You know a black woman with a cute skin tone, natural hairstyle and a cute feminine face etc.
Now I guess this would be the/my answer as to why "MOST OF US" (black men) chose to go for white, Hispanic, Asian, Indian and Arab girls. It's simple really, IMHO most black women try to imitate NON-BLACK WOMEN.
So let's be honest here for a moment, that's not even possible, right? I mean yeah, you can put on a weave, BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY, you're still going to be black LOL.
If I'm going to DATE A BLACK WOMAN, she's either going to be natural (close to it) OR IMMA JUST GO GET WHAT SHE'S TRYING TO COPY AKA a snow bunny or Latina Mami, SORRY TRUTH HURTS LOLOL
Hope I got my point across AND yeah I know that all women wear makeup/hair extensions etc BUT IT LOOKS/blends in with their natural hair unlike our women. THINK ABOUT THIS THOUGH, when was the last time you saw a white girl with an AFRO/why don't they wear them?
TLDR Most black women these days resemble that of an NON BLACK woman. So if that's the case why wouldn't we/I go date the REAL THING, THEN? I mean who wants a fake, when you can get the real thing? LOLOLOLOL
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What Mistninja said plus sometimes it's being real love and sometimes self-hatred. Some only date other races because of the stereotype that they're easier.
I like black women and I've dated them along with hispanics but it was always legit love.
Don't give up on us though.. we still love y'all but us liking everybody is often mistaken for "hating black women" because some guys really do :/
If you ask each black guy that does date outside of their race exclusively they will have many different answers and some of those answers will be: submissiveness, exotic look, pleasure, to have light-skinned kids with fine textured hair and some answers might even be stupid but my whole thing is i'm not worrying about men that don't want me because if I can't get them there is no use in trying to figure it out lol. I have love and respect for any man sees the beauty of all black women in their natural state and does not put her down and pick her apart or talk about our attitudes and put someone else on a higher pedestal because he can't handle the strength of a black woman. Your mom is black and if you have sister they are black too and they are disrespected when they are being compared to other races. I'm not against dating outside your race I'm all for it but its wrong when a guy generalizes and puts his whole race down as his reason for dating other races. You are beautiful and you will find someone that sees you the same what inside and out.
This question is so deep, we may need Dr. Phil for help. I've often asked some of my black male friends the same question. I was told in one situation, the man said white girls were more aggressive sexually and had less "back talk". In another situation, my relative said that black women never gave him the time of day (he's very nice, but slightly nerdy). He said white women make him feel really good. (He seems to end up with those that "mother" him). Another man said white women are ready for sex immediately when black women make him wait. (? I dunno) If I could tell him anything, it would be that most black women that I know were raised to be a lady. Those are some examples, but I'm sure there are hundreds of more reasons.
I've been noticing this too lately. I think it's because when they have children they don't want their daughters to be black. Because they know that they prefer lighter women so they try to make their future children try to have lighter skin.
Im not even racist, I'm not trying to be mean or rude. This is just what I've been thinking. Forgive me if I'm wrong and tell me what you think. I didn't want this to sound as bad as it did! D:
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Beats the hell outta me :/ often wonder the same thing too. I think it's because everytime "we" look up 9.5 times outta 10 we see a european looking woman. So its conditioning at its finest. It doesn't help that it's easier to see all women celebrating their non black features and their wanting to look more white.
I really don't know and I wish this wasn't the apparent trend.i'm black but i'm mixed race so my skin tone is on the lighter side and once a (black) guy found out and immediately lost interest in me. it's a weird self-hatred thing i think. for ages people have been told that the black female body is undesirable and it's really really fucked up. honestly, i feel a little bit guilty whenever black guys are into me because i'm scared that it's because of my skin tone not being super dark and that i'm the "next best thing" to a white woman.
I like black girls too, I just don't feel the need to limit myself based on race. If I like a girl and our personalities match, I'd be a fool not to take a chance regardless of race.
Can't speak for all but maybe some just like to try new things. My boyfriend is white, I think I'm the first in my family to be in a interracial relationship. And it's pretty fun learning about different cultures
Honestly, I think it's usually the light-skinned black guys do that.. Not saying all, but that's what I've mostly seen.
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Fjepfbep I am white and I love Latinos and whites and besides most Latinos are white.
I hate when black guys like latinos and whites more than blacks lol. I want a guy who likes black girls more than any other race hahah. I don't mean to sound racist but... I guess I'm picky... Lol.
I like all sorts of girls.. and personality is a huge factor in my decision.
Dayum! I'm stayin outa dis. Some sort of domestic issue going on with our African brethren, I assume.
to get those light skinned, colorful eyed, sunburn resistant, wavy haired babies
I'm one of these so I might be biased lolIt's like a girl wanting to marry a rich guy. They want to move up in social status.
I always see blacks with blacks here. don't know what world u live in..
They are being hunted n abducted by blondies coz of rumours of big packages... :D
You can always look for non black guys though.
How though? Most white women stay with white men anyways
I'll find a black guy who can answer @mistninja314
For diversity I suppose...
lol prob cus they dont like black chics
They want those "exxoticals".
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