Well there's no doubt that you're attractive, or else even the "ghetto" guys wouldn't be making approaches.
I'm guessing you don't exactly put yourself out there for the guys that you do like, but rather wait for them to approach which never happens. You're most likely going for the shy/quiet types when instead you should be going for a confident polite guy.
Overall those "ghetto" guys don't care whether or not you give them signals they go for what they want, as simple as that. They have the confidence, but lack to be the type you actually want.
So I suggest you put yourself out there, I'm not saying to ask out every guy you like, but start hanging out with a different crowd and let yourself be noticed more socially.
Here's the deal...
These "ghetto" guys appear disproportionately attracted to you because they aren't afraid of making moves. They are typically braver than the general population, which makes it seem like nobody else is interested.
Other guys ARE interested. Trust me. You've got it going on, and that's not even considering the booty you might have.
I did notice it's harder to approach a girl once she's associated with these "ghetto" guys. They sort of stick to her, and that deters other guys from making a move. That's how "trashy" guys reproduce. They are relentless.
1) Don't ever feel bad for putting your question out there or having an opinion. It's okay. I know what you mean.
2) In my experience, a lot of those guys usually have had many women, which boosts their confidence, and makes them go after women that they find attractive/prefer.
Nice black guys approach as well if they feel confident enough and are interested. Maybe there aren't a lot where you are.
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honestly stop focusing on it refocus your attention on your goals your life your friends and your bank account. because your a girl their is always going to be a guy out there who will try to have sex with you its the reality. but at the end of the day they won't take care of your ass so just be nice and work hard and you will reap the benefits of your OWN succeess and guys will find you
I feel your pain and yes you're right no matter the shade or ethnicity there always seems to be a few out there. Then again it might not be them like their personal thoughts it might just be where they've grown up. Maybe that's how they have casual conversation as to not frighten you bc that's how other people feel more comfortable around them.
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Well, you're attractive so they hit on you, no doubt in a cringe worthy way.. those dudes are arrogant and unintimidated by attractiveness, so they're more forward. Other dudes take a while longer to pluck up the courage.
"Ghetto"/"Thug" culture, is based around aggression. I know people who are of thug culture, although I don't live out that lifestyle myself.
Because of aggression being the epicenter of "ghetto"/"thug" culture, it makes sense that people of that culture are more bold with approaching women. It's no myth; I've seen this myself in my teen years when I lived in urban areas, so you're not crazy!
Now as of why non-"ghetto"/"thug" culture guys, DONT approach you as much, i'm honestly not sure.
Okay I think I'm polite... believe me LOL 😁 they think that your out of there league?
The ghetto guys almost have that not much to lose type of attitude. Putting that into perspective there not to worried about their image, let alone looking silly hitting on women there not going to get
I think you're mistaking getting hit on with catcalling which is sexual harassment, not flirting.
I notice you didn't say polite brown guys.. lmao jk. Ghetto dudes hit on everything that moves so its not just you lol
No one wants some tore back bum trying to get at them. Lower class people are more sexually aggressive, race notwithstanding.
Because the only difference in a hood rat and a sociopath is that a sociopath generally has a higher IQ.
you're a cute girl. you'll attract the right attention eventually. Just need to change up the venues that you tend to visit.
the place you live,, You would be hit on anywhere even by middle class guys
You're very pretty, that's why. Usually these ghetto guys don't care and will go after whatever they want. Polite people actually have manners so they won't approach anyone.
Do you live in the ghetto?
Becuse they like you?
They aren't as wimpy as middle class "men".
Because that's who they like?
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