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Guys, if a random girl asked you to have sex with her, would you?

Imagine a girl walks up to you and says "Would you have sex with me?".... what would you do?
I'd go have sex with her, but only if I thought she was hot
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I'd go have sex with her, even if she wasn't all that hot
Vote B
I wouldn't have sex with her
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Guys, thanks very much for your comments. It has been really interesting knowing your thoughts. The reason I asked this was because I saw a youtube video of a girl doing a social experiements - she asked 100 guys. (One old guy called the police on her). 50% of them agreed to it, and many others that said no were choking on their words (some had their gf's standing next to them, and the gf prompts him to say no - lol).
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  • Women really DONT know guys at all. Little secret for you darling. We're all perverted bastards and we think about doing women from 14 till the age we're too fucked to get it up any more. I don't know about the weird fuckers that pass for men these days but my generation and every one before it everything they done in life was geared towards getting women into bed. There was none of this 'oh I'm the sensitive type I need to feel wanted and appreciated to go to bed with a women' crap. A guy like that in my day would have got a slap and told to fuck off. There it is a big nutshell

    • That's what my parents always told me... but you dont' see guys behaving like that really. By the way, off the quesiton a bit... but if guys are like that, what's the go with a guy who clearly likes you because he stares at you but he won't hook up with you. If he's trying to get women into bed and clearly likes you then why would he run the other way?

    • Won't hook up with as in you asked him to go home with you and he said no or you gave him the come on and he didn't approach? Some guys are confident and know what they're doing, some are terrified, some are just hopeless cases. All want to get you in bed if they fancy you and all would like a bit of encouragement so they dobt embarrass themselves asking a woman who isn't interested

    • @Ped1981 That kinda sad.

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  • Hmmm it's suspicious, but if she's hot, why not? I'll make sure I'm 100% safe though.

    • Yeah I can see how it would be suspicious because it rarely happens. Would she have to be hot?

    • Yeah, if I don't find her attractive I would say no.

    • That's fair enough - thanks for your comments :-)

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  • Guy or girl.. uhm, probably not. I'm going to the exclude the fact that I have a boyfriend, so my reasoning then would be that even if she or he was attractive, I find it very unattractive to be willing to just have sex with just anyone like that. It's trashy. And I have a lot of self respect so, when I wasn't in a relationship, I never went around and got laid, I've had three serious relationships, so I've only had sex with two guys and one girl.

  • They actually did that as an experiment. A girl in a skirt was put as the actress asking random guys for sex. I thought for sure, almost every guy would say yes but it was rather a 50% success rate (starting with several NO's at the beginning; even coming from some single guys) and a 40+ year-old man nearly wanted to press harassment charges against her.

  • It probably depends where you ask him. If its at the club there will be more guys who would have sex with you. But if you go to a store or library or whatever then Im sure not many will say yes.

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  • I'd want to get to know a woman (at the very least) before any of that happened. I think if a woman asked me for that, I probably wouldn't want to date her - she wouldn't be my type.

    • Yeah, that's fair enough... I'm actually the same way. I just saw it on YouTube - half the guys said yes so I thought I'd see what everyone here thought. Thanks for your comment

    • I was at a pub with my buds; I'm heading out of the bathroom; girl comes up to me, supporting her falling down drunk friend; I'm a little concerned for this girl - she doesn't look well. Her friend (slightly more sober, though maybe not) says "Hey, you'd "do" her, right?" ::brain shuts down:: "uh... I don't even know her. She looks like she needs to get to the bathroom. I don't think she's doing too good. "Come on, you'd "F" her brains out." "She's cute, but not my type. And I wouldn't take advantage of a drunk girl." To the girl: "feel better." I start to walk away: "Oh come on, you'd TOTALLY do her! He'd totally do you; what a (expletive) liar." Some guys DO exist that wouldn't take advantage of a girl who needed help. That wouldn't be any kind of turn on.

    • You totally did the right thing. I know a lot of guys who wouldn't do a drunk girl.

  • Depending on how pretty she was... I'd be a bit turned on, quickly followed by a bit freaked out.

    • freaked out - why? because it's not a normal thing?

    • I think just because it's not something I've encountered before.. it's a tad forward lol. I'd worry maybe she was on the rebound or had an STI.. having said that, we shouldn't really judge.

  • Not at all; I wouldn't even consider it.

    First of all, I'm in a relationship already, so there's no chance that I would even think about cheating. Even if I wasn't, though, I don't sleep with women that I don't know.

    Just the fact that she's asking, as a stranger, would be very disconcerting.

    • Fair enough... the reason I am asking is I saw a social experiment on YouTube - half the guys said yes to her, the other half had a hard time saying no but had a gf.

  • Voted B.

    "not all that hot" is fine as long as we aren't going too far with the lack of attraction. The thing with me is that I know girls in reality are not like the girls on tv. So as long as we get along it is fine. Oh and only with a condom.

    • Yeah, I figured she had to look reasonable - like not but ugly. Fair enough with the condom!

    • Congratulations! You just got "hypothetical AIDS"

    • Be careful, because HYPOTHETICALLY, you could pass that on

  • Uh, there's a video on this on YouTube.

    • Yeah, I saw the question on here about what girls would do if a guy asked them... then I saw the YouTube videos - the girl version and guy version. I found it interesting and thought I'd go a step further and find out how much attraction plays a part - hence there is option A and option B.

  • Disgusting, I would be thinking about std cocktail & disengage as quickly as possible from such a situation.

    • So you automatically assume she's been with everyone?

    • If she was that forward, yes.

  • I have to make sure she isn't psycho first. So no deal on a walk up.

    • So you'd have to get to know her a bit first? How long would you have to spend with her before you felt she wasn't a psycho do you think?

    • I have actually had the pleasure, I can spot them pretty quick. I would say first or second date. In general, I would have to be totally comfortable with someone before I could have sex. I would say 5+ dates, or 3+ weeks or so.

  • Hell No, because that would be overkill & stupid.

    • Not a believable scenario for you?

    • The reason I ssid this was because I wouldn't know if the girl woukd be trying to set me up for some prison time & her doing whatever it take to make me look & feel like a dangerous suspect. So I would just keep my distance away from her & walk away from the danger that's trying to fine me & lower me into its traps.

    • it's a sad world when you think about it - but you are right, it would be a legitimate concern

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  • Too suspicious.
    And risky.

    So no.

    • Thanks for your comment - quite a lot of guys agreed with you!

  • Ideally I'd say no and most likely it wouldn't happen for one reason or another. But it would definitely be difficult to say no if I found her attractive.

    • So it would be a bit of a moral dilemma for you?

    • Definitely, brain and heart vs lust and hormones

    • Yeah, I know what you mean - women get that too. Thanks for your comment :-)

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  • I would go to the aids clinic first (no offense bc i don't know you personally) cause you don't know what you could catch

    • That is true and seems to be what most guys would fear is the STDs. But assume you know she is clean or disease free you would do it?

    • i couldn't because she is weird.

    • What makes you think she is weird?

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  • Nope, she has to buy me dinner first! 😝

    • Haha... I like it :-)

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5JJFBtHcBnM



    They did a social experiment about this.

    • Lowkey I was just thinking about this video! She had a bunch of guys willing to go!

  • what does she look like?

    • Assume she's quite attractive - like maybe a 7 or 8 out of 10.

    • and how old?

    • Any age you want.,...

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  • Probably not. If she asks me, she has probably asked numerous others, meaning she probably harbors STDs.

    • Thanks for your comment - yes she might have... or maybe not (no way of knowing for sure).

    • I'd rather not play Schrödinger's STDs with my life, LOL

    • Yeah, understand... thanks for your opinion :-)

  • That's up to you.

  • I don't know. Probably reject it out of nervousness and i will think there is probably a camera somewhere and she is just joking.

    • Fair enough, thanks for your comment...

    • Most men would be definitely tempted and confident guys will definitely bang her.

    • You don't think guys less confident would go for it - even with a bit of encouragement from her?

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  • If I had to give a yes or no answer right then and there, I'd go with no.

    • How long would you have to chat with her for the answer to be yes?

    • Maybe 20-30 minutes, at least to the point where I could be sure that saying yes and going through with it would leave us both better rather than worse off.

    • So you'd just have to check she was normal and of sound mind and just after getting a basic human need satisfied?

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  • I'd be wanting to know if she had herpes or something first. So probably not.

    • What if she told you she was totally clean?

    • How could I believe her? I'd say if she let's me take her to pathology and shows me the results then I would if she's clean.

  • There's a lot more to a relationship than sex. I wouldn't give myself up that easily, lol.

    • Thanks for your comment. And I agree with you... but I saw a clip on youtube where half the guys agreed when a random girl asked so I thought I'd do the poll

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