Because your a kid and you still immature. I don't know if your skinny or not. But if your saying stupid shit like this i will assume your thin and probably part of the popular assholes from school.
The fact is that the overwhelming majority of us are not some flat stomach, 6 pack, muscle bound, low iq POS. Most of us, men and women, have some weight on us. So many of us tend to be attracted to the same type.
I would not want some skinny woman. I don't find many of them attractive and I would be afraid to hurt them during sex. i don't consider myself fat but I have a gut and I am a big guy.
And just because the question said "larger women" doesn't mean they have to be 500lb blobs. everything within reason. I think most of us are talking reasonably overweight vs the 90lb dripping wet stick.
When you get older you will find out that while you have to be attracted to a person for any relationship to work, beauty isn't everything. The hotter and thinner the woman the more high maintenance, uppity, snobish cunt she is... who need that.
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You are 18. You are influenced by peers. You also influence peers. I believe you about your preferences. You seem to hold them strongly. At the age of 48 I am totally fine admitting that I married a BBW and I did so BECAUSE I was attracted to her.
Thirty years ago, I would have kept my mouth shut, and just went with what everyone else was saying because I am for the most part a non confrontational sort of guy. I suspect that some of the guys you personally know are keeping their preferences to themselves. After all, why invite scrutiny and judgement? Why make yourself the butt of a joke?
When maturity comes along, and a guy learns that his happiness counts for more than his concerns about your opinion of him, then you will see him date whom he wants. You're just a bit young to see that happen yet.
In my experience, men will like a pretty face or some other feature so much that weight will almost be a non-issue. Sure they might prefer to look at slender women, but what if the woman he's falling over has a gorgeous face, nice hair, and big boobs - three things that he is smitten with?
I'm a bigger girl, and every guy I've dated said they loved looking at me and hearing my voice, and my weight was more of my problem than anything. I think it's how a bigger girl carries herself too. I know that I have shape, and the one thing I can't stand is my tummy, but my boobs and hips proportionately make up for this. If a man loves the shape but falls for more of my look than my body type, then is he a real chubby chaser or does he just find more stock in what other features she might have that drives him wild?
I think if you point-blank ask anyone, man or woman, what their preference is, of course they will tell you - but often times they aren't deal breakers.
Honestly, I think it's a combinations of issues.
A. Their idea of what 'chubby' actually is. They think it's a girl with some pooch. In reality, that's an average, relatively healthy weight that probably doesn't do any weight training or toning exercise.
B. I've notice a lot of guys around here have lower self esteem and use the website as a way to talk to girls one -on-one in chats. They figure saying nice things and being a 'nice guy' will get them more acceptance and attention.
C. They're really just trying to be positive and nice, even if it's as much of a lie to themselves sometimes as it is to the question asker.
Because some guys don't want to be mean to the fat girl. They try to give her the confidence she desperately needs.
It's a sweet thought behind it, but I prefer to be honest. Here comes the discussion again, lie to make someone feel better or tell the hard truth even if it's not something they'll like.
Everybody has got different thoughts about this.
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Hmm. I do feel attracted towards girls who are slightly chubby though. Not fat. Chubby.
Maybe there's a correlation between GAG users and the type of people who find things society deems unattractive attractive.
Personally, I think that people know or strongly suspect that question askers are seeking validation, and it costs them nothing to provide it in exchange for feeling good about making somebody else feel good and possibly developing a positive social rapport with other GAG users.
Alternatively, since there's really nothing to gain by giving an honest negative answer, perhaps the many GAGers who hold more mainstream opinions avoid responding at all, skewing the results in favor of those who are replying and actually do find them attractive.These men usually go for fat girls because they don't stand a chance with slimmer more attractive girls, so then they claim that they purposely choose them to save face. To admit to women that they prefer slim women would destroy their chances of getting laid at all. So then they come on here and they want women to like them so they say the same things here. Women don't hear how men talk when women aren't around to hear, these same men will laugh at and make fat jokes and look at skinny women. But women would rather believe it just because they want to.
Well, a question like that I find the opposite. I find all the men on here say no, chubby is horrible.
I actually did an experiment. I uploaded a question with a photo of me saying would you date me and guess my weight. Now, I am quite full in my body. But I was overwhelmed with men saying yes and guessing I was about 50-60 pounds lighter than I am. I then revealed how much I weighed, and some of them said errrrr no actually... You sure you men aren't just number-believing retards?
Also... are you saying that because a man doesn't agree with you and likes chubby means that's he's full of shit? Interesting...I like how you have decided what other men like or think, you can only speak for yourself, not me or any other guy on this site. When I answer a question I tell the asker the truth, why would I or any one else lie to someone they don't know on the Internet. I am not lying when I say that I am completely fine with a fat woman, and even find them attractive, and would date them in a heart beat if she was a good person. Of course most people consider a woman to be fat if she weighs 120 pounds, because the common belief is, if you can't see your rib cage through your skin then your a fat ass.
Hahaha Well... some men only feel comfortable admitting that online. OR some of those men just like lying to themselves to make themselves feel like a better person.
Or, it's just the truth for them outside of the internet too...
But yes, the majority of guys and girls prefer a thin/masculine looking/feminine looking SO.Because we didn't go to toilet?
Nah! Because nobody wants to lead bad impression. Everybody wants to be loved so sugarcoated opinions are expected. What would you get by (constructive) criticising anyone here? Just negativity. But if you sugarcoat the things, you would get "aww..." "thank you ^_^" "you made my day" "best answer so far" "why don't other guys think like you?" *follows you* *selected as MHO* *lots of PM*
Etc. Etc. Etc.Do you not believe I have a 10inch penis and have threesomes every other hour? Do you not believe that I eat nothing but steak and chips all day but I'm still voted no1 sexiest guy ever? Do you not believe that I can fly? Do you not believe that I have a condition so everyone looks skinny? Do you not believe that I met a pornstar and that we had sex for 3 days straight? Do you not believe that I went on a rampage through Japan in the costume of a giant lizard? Do you not believe that I choose who to have sex with as there are so many women asking for it? Do you not believe that everything I've just said was sarcastic? :P
Men have been brainwashed to think they have to protect women's feelings all the time. If a woman has any insecurity guys will be lining up to tell her its all right. I have even heard a woman claiming she was forced into prostitution and asked if any man would ever want her and guys were lining up to tell her that it wouldn't be an issue to them. I don't think she was real, but the idea that something that massively damaging to a persons mental state wouldn't be an issue for guys is crazy.
Then there is also some really desperate guys on here that would go out with any woman no matter what she looked like or what mental issues she had.Alternative opinion: men who aren't exactly interested in them just don't bother answering or even opening such answer. So actually a small minority likes fat women, they just happened to be a majority of those who cared enough to answer.
im not often attracted to women who are overweight. I don't ask for anything in a girl that I do not have myself. As someone who is lean, I also have a preference for girls who are also lean. That being said, my preference isn't exclusionary, meaning that I don't only date lean girls. The problem is that a lot of these bigger girls don't even want to date a guy that is smaller than them anyways, so there isn't even a point in me pursuing half of them. The make such a big deal about their weight keeping guys away, but they themselves keep many guys away who may be interested if his physical stature doesn't make them feel feminine enough. But I've been attracted to girls who were stocky many times before. But I do have a limit.
Slim women are desired by 100% of guys.
Overweight women have less "fans", but they still have "fans". Otherwise, there would have never been the BBW category in p*rn sites. Don't you think?First of all, what people on this site consider "fat" is not normally fat. And men love chubby women, of course they like skinny women too, actually men love most things that are pretty and there are pretty skinny, chubby, average and fat women, so how can you say they don't.
You're trying to compare men in general to a small population of people spending time on the internet on a site that caters and appeals to certain kinds of people.
Your thinking is flawed.
A "sizeable portion" of responses on this site might typically consist of 10 or 15 people.Because they think they can be hard asses on here behind a keyboard, phone, tablet, screen.. nobody will meet them in real life and need to get attitude checks and get a life. I'm not saying all but dudes if the shoe fits wear that sucker!
It's because they're beta. They've been brainwashed by feminism to believe that their sexual needs don't matter because men's sexual desire is inherently evil.
That's why them say that. The reason that you hear so much of it is because alphas don't hang out here. They got dating on lock.I don't doubt that the majority of men prefer slim women. That said, I still see overweight women in relationships all the time.
Might be they are trying to be politically correct?
Because you have a lot of desperate men on here trying to look like that have morals or score brownie points with another female to help boost up their ego... chances of them dating a fat chick is very "slim" lol but fucking one... they would ride her like a scooter...
GaG is not representative of the population at large.
That said, I do agree that some people probably sugarcoat things. I just don't think it's as rampant as you do.
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