wow you make this guy sound pretty bad i hope your exaggerating for his sake but just to make things a bit more clear define trying flirting if you would but are you sure he is waiting by the doors for you have you tried altering your time by like 5 10 mins 2 see if he still does it or is he just wait till your done cause that is pretty weird also did you do anything that could have been misunderstood as a sign of interest prolong eye contact maybe smiling at him i know you could be just being polite but some guys might take this a sign of interest but if i were you i would just ignore him don't look his way try to turn away from him if he tires to stare you down if he tries to talk to you just say to him sorry but i am busy with my work out and i don't feel like talking most guys would get the message there is no point in trying to be polite since you are being nice he might still think he has a shot with you so you have to shoot him down officially so he gets the point and just moves on if he does not you might actually have a stalker
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you can either tell him straight to just stop, or flatline ignore him, OR you can just try to talk to him and see whats up, get some shit out of the way and then be done with it for good.
Tell him straight up to just leave you alone so you can focus on your workout.
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Right this is why I don't approach women at the gym. I am there to get my workout done and that's why I expect they are doing. You could always join a woman's gym
Dont be rude but be direct and clear. Let him know you are there to workout and not socialize and that your not interested. If the problem does not go away at that have a staff member speak with him.
You can tell him to leave you alone or have the managment tell him. Some guys don't easily get the message and by telling the owners puts him on notice.
Is this gym at your school or somewhere else? If its somewhere else you could tell on them ask the owner or whoever to tell them they are harassing you or whatever and there you go its that simple.
Best option without being rude is to continue your sets, he'll get the hint.
Great.. now I feel even more paranoid to talk to women at the gym -.-
Walk around with a fanny pack. I always stay away from people with fanny packs at the gym.
next time u see him just tell him to fuck off.
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