How to break up with a scorpio man?

[Anonymous]

- i've been dating him over the past 8 months
- he's fake to me all time, and I'm tired of not seeing who I'm really dating.. I was giving him time to open up, really connect with me, but he always puts this barrier.. I can't 'reach him'. Neither he shows interest in really connecting with me. Totally 'superficial' conversations, only.
- still looks at other girls.. when I'm *not looking* and once and compliment them... in front of me! .
- shows discomfort if I try to share a problem with him (which I rarely did).
- shows me affection only on his time
- After an arguments he tells me im the only one ( knowing that thats not how i really feel)

he's with me, I'm becoming aware of that, not because he truly cares - bc he doesn't show spontaneous true feelings / caring gestures - but because I'm a good 'asset' to him becuase he is in study mode everyday and im the only one there that shows him i care.

Once I almost broke up with him because I wasn't feeling wanted, and he got really upset, made this hole speech... possessive.. couldn't "stand to loose me". and for some time 'corrected' his behaviour.. but little.
But now I'm tired of feeling like an asset to him, not a person and a real girlfriend that he loves. And I want to break up with him.

How can i do really do it , becuase when i. Really hurt he just takes it as a joke and he never takes me serious , and says he wnats to be with me.. What is the best way to let him go?

Best advice you can give, please! Thank you!

[PhoenixRisingDK]

Scorpios are incredibly self-protective, and very hard to get to.
If you do, however, you'll probably have a loyal passionate partner for life.
A scorpio can be incredibly manipulative, to get what he/she wants.
They're jealous and possessive, but it all comes from love.
They're vindictive and will loathe you forever, if they feel unjusted.

He can't change who he is, but he probably has a really hard time expressing his feelings for you, and he probably loves you loads.

A sure-fire way to break up with a scorpio, is to betray his/her trust.
But beware that you'll probably make an enemy for life.

You can go more sly about it, and make him want to break up with you, though I'd advise against... scorpios knows every trick in the book.

Best approach I can think of is a clean cut.
Honest and up-front, this isn't working for me, then never have contact again... not even as friends (because that just isn't happening).
If he can't leave you alone after that (possessive remember?), don't hold back on pulling out the big guns with a restraining order for harrassment - he'll get the message.

[Katastrophy]

Firmly and straight forward.

" We are not working out. We have discussed this before and I do not feel that we are both mutually benefiting from this relationship. I want someone to genuinely love and respect me and you are not providing that. I do not want to get back together."

Then block him. I say block because you and I both know he will say whatever he thinks you want to hear to keep you in his back pocket. You deserve more than that and you know this. If keeping in contact with you will weaken your resolve, cut him out of your life before he interferes with the relationship you truly want.

[tattooedhandfet]

I am a Scorpio myself. The easiest way to let us go is to make us not care about you anymore. The power of indifference honey. Just tell him you are through and walk away. Donr let him try to ensnare you in a trap. You are too young to not be happy. We all deserve peace and happiness.

[Ersacol28]

The astrological sign dont matter, I think that you should be honest and just tell him you're not comfortable with him and explain the reasons that you just mention.

[Rcjh1987]

just say look this isn't working, I think we should move on from this relationship.