My girlfriend says it feels like we're more of friends, what do I do to change that?

[Tony_Bear]

I've been with my girlfriend for 1 year and 2 months, last night, she told me that things are getting kinda repetitive and she doesn't like talking to me anymore on the phone, She said things are getting to where they feel like were more of friends and not boyfriend gf. What can I do to change her mind?

[authentic]

1. Take your present level of communication to a deeper level.

2. Pay closer attention to each other's various aspects, to find new areas. Even looking at each other's physical features more closely counts.

BOTH of you need to work on this simultanously, especially her. SHE, not you, is the one who is starting to get bored.

[Jonny_]

Make sure to hug and kiss her alot, talk about her and your feelings and your relationship... Friends don't usually do any of this, just do things friends wouldn't do.

[Tony_Bear]

We already do those things, that's why I'm confused. We don't really do anything that friends do, we've always been like that with each other. I think she might still be expecting it to feel like new love even after this long.