Just recently, our mutual friend suddenly stopped talking to me. I asked him what was up & he told me my friends with benefits kinda confronted him about us messaging each other and he was kinda upset about it so he wanted to keep his distance from me now, just to avoid unnecessary drama, which I respect. Later, I asked my friends with benefits if he was ok with us talking and he swore he was. Uh, okay.
he also does weird things like texting me passive agressive texts like, "so what u aren't talking to me anymore? Lol," if i dont get back to him. Or I apologize for missing his call & not calling him back and he will joke around saying,"suuuure you forgot! Haha!" Insinuating I am ignoring him. Are these like supposed to be defense tactics to protect his fragile ego or what? He is acting so weird & hot & cold... I don't get it! He really does not act like he likes me as anything more than a friend... actually the thing is, sometimes he can really act like a crappy friend!
So I give up!!! if someone would be kind enough to maybe clarify this sort of behavior, I would be grateful.
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