So you like this guy, and obviously you look his way when he comes near. You make eye contact with him and he either
option #1- makes eye contact for like four seconds and then looks away
option#2- holds your gaze for awhile longer, until you shy off and look away
What does this mean?
I always thought that if a guy quickly looks away, then he is probably shy and doesn't think he's good enough for you. And if he holds your eyes, he is more or less confident/cocky and is challenging you to come and get him, because he knows he's that good and is not going to budge.
Basically either way, I believe that if you guys don't know each other at all, besides a "you've seen them in the hall a couple times" type of person then the girl has to make the first move and somehow create a scenario in order to talk to him and introduce herself. Do you agree with my reasoning? Any comments/opinions would be appreciated. :) Thanks!
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I believe that it is perfectly reasonable for the guy to be the one to create a scenario as well. If two people like each other and don't know each other very well, it's almost a game of trying to see who snaps first and makes an obvious move. As for your eye contact analysis, there is a possibility for the guy to like you, is shy, but forces himself to make eye contact because he believes logically that it helps, and then shy away.