When a guy breaks up with you, does he feel pain and heartbreak as well?
My ex and I just recently broke up. Saturday to be exact. The past 2 months I guess you could say, we've been having problems, but always worked... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
Forget him. I was in the same situation as yours and my ex told me the same line as your bf.
"If I can't treat you like a princess, then I don't deserve you. You deserve someone better."
Omg please, that's just his ways of saying: I don't wanna be with you and I feel bad about it. He doesn't have feelings for you any longer. Move on. He said it himself that he only thought of you as his good friend.
I know it's hard not to see him again since you have same friends etc. Me too. But you know what, when I and my ex meet in group situations, we just don't talk. It might be ackward but we have to do what we have to. He didn't tell you wanting to break up because he's still unsure on how to say it to you. So, when you brought that up, he sees it as an opportunity to say how he feels that is his feelings has faded as a lover for you.
To answer your main question: Yes, guys can feel that way but it depends on the situation etc. If he only thought of you just as a fling, then I doubt it.
What Guys Said 4
Ok well then there doesn't seem to be any problem to me. Fundamentally I guess you guys still love each other, and that's all that matters.
His head? What about your head! Talk about verbal diarrhea!
No he doesn't. If he wanted to be with you he wouldn't have broken up with you.
yes but some times some guys won't show there hurting inside =]
What Girls Said 2
girl that's rough...you just need to be supportive and help him change in the way thay he wants. Don't harp on him about it, change is ineviteable and especially at that age. Be supportive and don't take it personally. Just be a good friend to him right now.