I will explain to you why should either break up with him or, (if you are really willing on working in the relationship, because you know your boyfriend more than me and he might have his redeeming qualites), try to level with him and explain him how you feel when he talks to you like that. Also, i would advise you to ask him why he can't be a little bit more sensible and understand that when you need to vent he should be a shoulder where you can lean on and not another reason to add to your stress. Talk with him calmly and try to reach an understanding. And make it clear that in no circunstance is it acceptable for him to curse when talking with his beloved girlfriend, his baby. He should do nothing more than be respectful of you and your feelings. When he doesn't agree with you, he should express himself in a calm reasonable manner. There is no benefit in mistreating you. This is not positive criticism or encouragement. If, however, after talking with him, u see he keeps this as a pattern, then I believe u should consider if he is really the right guy for u. U might be blinded by ur own feelings. Finally, i can honestly tell you I would never let my boyfriend treat me like this. Like I am anything other than his princess. Good luck
Notice how she choose the answer that suggested she stay with him the MHO, she's not going to leave him. I don't feel bad for people like this, if you think you deserve this treatment, because you're so insecure to think you deserve better, keep being weak and verbally abused. He called you a piece of shit, you stay with him? Ok, you like it we love it!
It's unacceptable for a guy to treat you or someone else that way. You are so much worth it and if he can't see it and doesn't treat you correctly (like a princess), then he's not worth your time. You deserve better. Someone who knows your worth and loves you for who you are without intentionally break you and hurt you.
If you are just actually mildly venting and this is how he reacts, then yeah he's an ass and you should dump him immediately.
However, it's hard to tell because you aren't exactly sharing what you are saying to him. Generally when people type "get your shit together" the other person isn't exactly being a saint. You may cross several lines during arguments that we don't know about right now.
Either way, you should consider just ending it because the situation seems pretty toxic all around.
And the reason why you haven't broken up yet is?
If anyone sent that message to me I'd take that as the end of relationship conversation and just block their number and never talk to them again.
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Don't be with someone who treats you like that, you will find someone better in your life. Until then be with the people that your are close to and the time in between finding the one will go by faster than you can believe. Good Luck ;)
Well this is a classic verbally abusive relationship. Time to move on or else it will just continue or even get worse.
Dump that piece of shit!
Dump that piece of shit!
Dump that piece of shit! Dump that piece of shit!
Dump that piece of shit!
Dump that piece of shit!
Dump that piece of shit!
Dump that piece of shit!
Dump that piece of shit!
What a fucking loser, why do you even stay with him?
Let that douch go. He like to play mind games and manipulate you , all that does is crush your self esteem. Pizz on that looser
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Break up with him.
He is an asshole. He is treating you very badly considering he is your partner. This is not a healthy relationship for you.
You really shouldmt settle for someone like that. Do yourself a favor and leave him, let him be
he has no right to talk to you like that what the fuck.
Clearly the thing you call your boyfriend is a piece of shit. There's no reason to stick around.
This is literally verbal abuse please end this relationship before it escalates further...
Okay, um that is a little extreme
and in my opinion the is emotional abuse that you do not deserve.
I think you should break up with him or give him an ultimatum
No one she be treated like that
Dump his sorry ass, he's basically projecting his own insecurities on you
What the fuck... you deserve so much better dump his ass asap and stay strong
break up he's a rude jackass
Wow.. what happened between you too that made him say that?
That's an abusive relationship, break up with him.
Wow he sounds toxic as fuck.
He's being verbally abusive.
It's going around in circles... so just break up
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