What should I do if my boyfriend sleeps naked?

[Anonymous]

I'm going to be alp ending the night at my boyfriends house but he sleeps naked. What is the appropriate attire when someone sleeps naked? I don't sleep naked so I'm not sure what I should wear too in order for it to be comfortable for him. Also I'm still a virgin and I'm not sure if him sleeping naked means sex. He knows I haven't done anything before so I'm not sure about what he thinks is going to happen. If I was to sleep naked (this is for future reference) what do you do? Do you just sleep or do you do more

[LibraPisces66]

He needs to wear something when you're there. This whole "I sleep naked" sounds like a plan to pressure you into bed with a naked man who wants to just have sex with you, and really doesn't care about you, or your being a virgin and needing to take it slow or however you feel comfortable taking it. In no way should you climb into a bed naked with him yet, if ever. Bottom line, he does NOT sound like a good guy if you ask me. I mean, if he cared, he would be happy to just snuggle with you on his couch (fully clothed of course), and he would give you his bed and then sleep on the couch, giving you plenty of space and privacy. Don't let yourself be pressured or manipulated into having sex too quickly, or even with him, which I would seriously question doing knowing he's told you he sleeps naked and not offering to sleep on the couch.

[Asker]

He's told me he sleeps naked but I've never slept with him. And we have cuddled on the couch together before. We've nerve otter to the sleeping together part so he's never had a chance to offer me his bed before (if that makes sense). I'm okay with sleeping with him as long as we aren't having sex or I don't have to be naked, I want to take it to the next level so I can become more comfortable with the idea.

[LibraPisces66]

I understand. Though be advised his cock WILL likely be hard in the morning, at the very least (if not more times during the night), and he will probably want to press it against you or have you touch it. Especially if he's going to be naked beside you. Just saying. So if you're ready for that leap, then by all means hop right in there beside him. Just know what's up. That, or simply ask him to wear some PJ's. Which is what I recommend. After all, they can still always come off if you feel you'd like him to. :)

[hellionthesage]

generally speaking, you don't sleep over at significant others house unless you are prepared for sex. It doesn't necessarily mean that is the intent but being that close to gether in an intimate setting and with no one else around tends to lead to sex. So don't go unless your prepared for that.

[SnowyOwl]

I remember the 1st time my boyfriend and I slept together. I was sitting on the bed when I realized he was getting naked. Was so nervous he might want to have sex that I kept my full jeans and blouse on and slept with it... If your boyfriend sleeps naked then, as you inevitably cuddle through the night, you will feel some things but dont get too alarmed because its natural. If you have communicated with your boyfriend (either verbally or through body language) that you dont want to do more than cuddling, he should understand and it'll be just fine. I'm sure he is just happy he gets to cuddle with you at night, since it gives such a warm feeling (:

[Lyndsielee666]

My boyfriend and i have slept naked since the second time we hung out. Nothing more, just slept. Itd not a big deal really

[oceanoceanlifefun]

Sleep in a bra and underwear

[summiter]

It is ok to be naked with him. It does not mean u have to have sex. Enjoy sharing your body by being naked.

[CheerGirl38139]

Wear what you feel comfortable sleeping in

[CheerGirl38139]

And yeah... it's not too much to ask him to wear boxers or something just to make it easier for you. If he's not an asshole he should be able to compromise

[_Feline]

tell him to put some goddamn shorts you don't want his dikk penetrating your beautiful face while u sleep!!!

[DomTreddo]

It's healthy if you sleep naked. Look it up for yourself and then reply.

[Onemario1234]

Sleeping naked isn't a sexual thing, so you're fine on that regard, but just wear whatever you want while sleeping. If I had a girlfriend that slept naked, then that's fine. I'd wear my normal PJs and sleep like it's no big deal.

[Lithium65]

He shouldn't have any problem wearing something if you're in the same bed. Or letting you wear what you want. If it is a problem, he is just looking for Sex

[RM250]

Sleep, and do what ever comes to mind. That you are comfortable with that is.

[SkaterDude]

put a cowboy hat over his dick

[Asker]

This just made me choke on my cheezits

[Skel3]

I've been with my boyfriend for 10 years and he sometimes will sleep naked and it doesn't always mean he expects sex. Usually I fall alseep before him and when he's ready for bed he'll crawl in bed with me.. sometimes its hot and he'll just pull his cloths off. In fact I woke up this morning and saw he had no cloths on lol I sometimes will sleep with my shirt off.. it doesn't always mean it will lead to sex... that being said... guys do wake up hard... so if your not ready for that I'd ask him to keep his clothes on while your sleeping over.