My boyfriend is always late?

[Breakingbermuda]

My boyfriend is always late when we meet up. And it's never just ten minutes, it's always half an hour to an hour and he's even been three hours late, even when we schedule late in the day, or when he picks the time to meet up. He always has an excuse and it hurts. I know he loves me, we're best friends, and I couldn't imagine my life without him, but I can't help but feel hurt when he is late all the time. It makes me feel like I'm not worth his time. It makes me feel like he doesn't even care. I've tried talking to him about it, and he promises over and over again that he will try to improve and try to fix it, but he never does. What the hell am I supposed to do? It makes me so angry!

[DessieDoo]

Sometimes we just have to accept certain things about other individuals. My boyfriend was never late for a date, but he whenever he would go to his buddies house, he would always stay a lot later than what he would originally tell me he was going to. There is always going to be that one thing that makes you angry and upset within a relationship. I have learned to work past how much it bothered me when my boyfriend did such things, and since I have accepted it as is, our relationship has improved drastically. What I would do if I was you, is stop bringing it up with him. Just pretend you are okay with it. That is what I did with my boyfriend and he ended up starting to come home when he said he was going to.

[bubble_tea]

Make up this rule that whenever he's late, he's gotta pay for your drink or food if he doesn't already or that he has to buy you something small of your choosing. If money is no issue to him at all, he has to compensate in other forms.. like doing something embarrassing in public for you.
He'll learn real quick.

[tragicallyinlove]

Make your date an half hour later than you tell him.

[BertMacklinFBI]

I fucking get annoyed as shit when people are late and its like every single fucking time. like seriously why am I the punctual one. in my experience, the only thing you can do is tell them and address it firmly that it is bothering you. I fucking tell my friend what time to meet and what time is best to leave, I fucking get to the place 5 minutes early and the bitch still hasn't left yet, fucking just started getting ready to leave LIKE WOW! FUCKING REALLY? just tell him straight up, but be nice about it.

[Breakingbermuda]

Thankyou for not saying to break up with him, but yes! That's exactly how I feel!

[BertMacklinFBI]

no probs, breaking up isn't always the only solution lol :P

[I_am_repulsive]

I'd understand if your boyfriend is Filipino, since we are always late to the party no matter what; like half an hour to an hour late. In any case is this something you can actually look past or do you think that he should be prioritizing you before anything else and actually show up in time?

[Dtegesd123]

he is in highschool, how busy can he get, he just doesn't value you. I hate dating people like this. It's a lack of respect for you.

[Anonymous]

I can't be bothered with people like that, he doesn't love you if he's prepared to keep you hanging around for hours, I broke up with a girlfriend for that precise reason.

[zhengyue]

Your boyfriend think other things more important than you, I think you can consider to change a boyfriend.

[Breakingbermuda]

I couldn't in a million years.

[KFettario]

Yes, it is inconsiderate. Try talking to him

[OnionsNstuff]

schedule an hour earlier

[Breakingbermuda]

I did. I scheduled for nine o clock and he didn't get there until almost noon.