I was in a LDR when I was in college. My girlfriend would call me every day and want to stay on the phone for hours. But we'd eventually run out of stuff to say to each other and I'd want to hang up. But she'd insist on staying on the line with me and finding more stuff to talk about. Eventually this got annoying because there was only so much that would happen to us each day. She would get upset each time I wanted to hang up. It's not that I was tired of her or wanted to break up, but forcing a conversation just got long and boring and I just felt there was funner things I could do with my time.
So, he probably takes your behavior as a little too needy. Go hang out with your friends, pursue some personal interests. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you have to stay in or constantly text each other. So my advice is carry your conversation till it comes to an end and then accept that it's over till tomorrow. If you want it to work out, he needs a little space, time to do his own thing.
Your boyfriend is tired of having to do all the WORK of a relationship but not getting any of the BENEFITS of a relationship - i. e., getting to enjoy physical time together with you. Need I remind you that spending time together is the POINT of having a relationship?
Something like 98% of LDRs fail because of issues related to the distance/time apart. Welcome aboard - you are one of those 98%.
Do the right thing: break up with him now, and learn the lesson: only date people who are LOCAL to you, because LDRs (nearly) never work in the long run.
I wish a girl would message me all on her own without me having to initiate it. Is that what you're doing? Texting him all day long? I can see how over time it gets annoying. You spend half the day texting and then you don't get anything productive done. It's ok to text just once a day to check in and that's it.
May be he is busy, give him sometime and please don't ask directly things like you ignored me... Rather than this you could say are you busy.. When you are free blah blah..
2. may be he found better than you.. In that case post some of your pics with a good looking guy.. If he doesn't feels jealous means he found someone..
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