Well you can't make him get his license, if he is happy without it that is his choice. However, he should not expect you to drive him everywhere. If you are often driving him places he should be putting petrol in your car as a payback for all the running around you are doing. If he is not prepared to put petrol in your car he needs make public transport his new best friend. You are not being too harsh at all, he wants you to run him around everywhere in your car and not contribute anything in return. I actually think him filling up your car with petrol is what he should be doing I mean you are getting up early, driving out of your way to take him places and see him. Did you just say something about loosing your job? if you did you could tell him if he can't contribute to the cost of all the running around he is going to have to take public transport because you can't afford it.
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On one hand, he seems ungrateful for not pitching in for gas and that sort of thing.
On the other hand, you seem ungrateful for thinking that what he did for you isn't good enough because it wasn't exactly what you were hoping for
Did you not get to know this guy very well before you started dating and are just now realizing that's how he is? It seems like the kind of guy who would make his girl steaks and watch cartoons would have been giving off signs that he was that kind of guy from the beginning. Maybe next time try to be a better judge of character, dear.
Your situation kinda reminds me when I had a roommate. I had a car and she didn't so she kept asking me to drive her around places. I got annoying after a while so I just said no, i have something else to do, and she got the hint.
As for the other stuff, definitely tell him. I would not like feeling masculine in a relationship.
he is inmature and your giving like 80 he's gibing 20 of the relationship and NO he isn't the sweetest person ever he didn't do crap for your birthday talk to him now and see how it goes and do be always avaible to be his taxi ;) im kind but not dumb to give everything in the relationship
It sounds like you are a taxi service with benefits
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Yeah I thinkit's partially your fault for getting involved with an ambition-less, dependent and needy guy, especially at his age, you're not sixteen anymore you can't just look at what's in the heart alone, your first priority should be "where are my kids Someday, and myself going to be if I'm with this guy" and right now the answer is probably nowhere.
what are his career and finances like? is he college-educated? financially-stable?
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