Okay, so, I have this friend I met at work and I've known him for roughly 6-7 months. I've always thought he was really attractive but never realized the feeling was mutual until I got his phone number to ask him a question about work -- maybe 3 or 4 weeks ago -- and we texted nonstop, pretty much ever since. We flirted quite a bit and FINALLY hooked up. It was the BEST sex I've ever had. Three full hours, four different positions. I was screaming and moaning all night. However, I think he might be catching feelings and I need some advice, because I explicitly told him beforehand that I am NOT looking for a relationship. I said we could be friends with benefits and he agreed 100%.
But it really seems like he might be feeling a little more than something solely sexual for me. For starters, when we hooked up I told him to keep the kissing to a minimum, and no cuddling because it's too intimate. He said I'd just have to get used to the kissing and by the time we finished the first round, he was pulling me close. When I pointed it out to him that I said no cuddling before, he just pulled me into a spooning position and we spooned for a long time. He was kissing me everywhere, my neck, my shoulders, my back, my cheek, my lips. And I can't say I didn't like it because I loved it but that's exactly why I didn't want to do it! Then after we were finished, he took me out to eat even after I insisted he shouldn't waste his money (we don't get paid much at all). Then when he went to drop me off at my place, he was very offended when I went to get out of the car without hugging him. He was offended that I didn't think to hug him immediately when he first picked me up too. He's also told me that I he loves my smile, laugh, eyes, and personality and that I was an exception for him because he never mixes his sex life with work. Ever since, he's been asking me how my day's been, how I'm feeling, etc . every few days. Should I be wary of this? Does it sound like
But it really seems like he might be feeling a little more than something solely sexual for me. For starters, when we hooked up I told him to keep the kissing to a minimum, and no cuddling because it's too intimate. He said I'd just have to get used to the kissing and by the time we finished the first round, he was pulling me close. When I pointed it out to him that I said no cuddling before, he just pulled me into a spooning position and we spooned for a long time. He was kissing me everywhere, my neck, my shoulders, my back, my cheek, my lips. And I can't say I didn't like it because I loved it but that's exactly why I didn't want to do it! Then after we were finished, he took me out to eat even after I insisted he shouldn't waste his money (we don't get paid much at all). Then when he went to drop me off at my place, he was very offended when I went to get out of the car without hugging him. He was offended that I didn't think to hug him immediately when he first picked me up too. He's also told me that I he loves my smile, laugh, eyes, and personality and that I was an exception for him because he never mixes his sex life with work. Ever since, he's been asking me how my day's been, how I'm feeling, etc . every few days. Should I be wary of this? Does it sound like
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