Guys, you miss her company or her pussy?

had one drunken sex night. I wanted it to be a one time thing- He contacted me the next day. I was not into it. Turned out he was too drunk to remember so he wanted to make sure we used protection. I assured him we did. and we did not talk for about a week. somehow one day we got to talking and then it became everyday for about two weeks. he offered to pick me up from the airport, which I was taken back by. I said yes. He picked me up from airport and it was a bit awkward. we talked a bit and he carried the bags to my dorm and then left. He was not interested in me, I could feel the vibe so it did not bother me. first week of school started, we did not talk much and i was starting to forget him. and then he started to text me from time to time (i think he was giving other girl a second chance, I must have been his rebound during the winter break) and he started to check in with me, to make sure I was okay. He sent me dick pictures on snapchat, He was telling me he was thinking of me while jerking off often. He knew I was going through a lot. we did not hang out at all until finally late February. I was expecting us to have sex that night but we ended up chatting from 10pm to 3am, he opened up his whole life story/history w his exes.. he was very open and i was surprised. I did not open up much. he did not make a move. then he finally invited me over for a movie night but he was too shy to make a move. he later texted me and he said "i just did not want you to think I invited you over just to fuck you" thats when i told him i was not looking for anything.. so we hooked up a couple of times after that... ironically i developed feelings for him so i told him and then we ended it. and we got in an argument, so we ULTIMATELY ended it. then he texted me saying "i do miss your company, I just dont know what to do w it" ... could it be he realizes his feelings for me so he's confused or does he just miss my pussy? I told him i miss his company too. he never responded.
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  • To be fair usually when u fuck a girl u like her personality to. U shouldn't be too critical of him he did show kindness to u and u developed feelings maybe he did to. Lets just say no guy would talk to a girl for hours straight and everyday if he didn't feel something more otherwise y not just call u when needed give him a chance

    • i did answer him, i told him i miss his company too but he never replied back.

  • Her company because you two had a long night conversation... so maybe he is in to you... try contacting him and see what he is up to or something..
    He also said that "i just did not want you to think I invited you over just to fuck you"
    so maybe he is in to something more than just sex...😐

    • i think he WAS but i led him to thinking i didn't want anything... which i didn't. so we hooked up without anything emotional until l told him i liked him and all he said was he considers me a good friend. and then some drama happened, so we had to end it. do u see him ever responding to my text or is it really done u think?

    • It could be done, I don't know... go talk to him and see. If you still have feelings and hope, wait and see or just go talk to him and see what he is really up to. If not, just move on :)

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  • well you had sex with him, that's pretty intimate, let me tell you.
    Would it be much to ask him to "stop being so confusing!" and "What do you actually want from me?"
    He would be the only one capable to answer this. If he does not know either and you like him, then cut him off. I mean, he banged you several times and he does not know if he likes you or not? Bullshit!
    If you want to simply keep banging him from time to time, then keep him around

  • He'll be back. He probably wants both. Doesn't sound like you guys are a good match though.

    • yeah but i did answer to his text saying i miss his company too. he never responded. its been about two weeks now.

    • In that case you should move on.

  • W0W..! I honestly don't have an opinion, but that's one hella of a story of romance. Good luck.

  • He misses the pusswah. I don't sense there is anything more to it.

    • so i told him i missed his company too with a face of -_- on text but he never responded. why do u think that is?

    • Because I don't think he misses you so much. If he were to reply saying he did miss you he's afraid it might turn into something he doesn't want. A relationship.

    • yeah, that was my first thought too. he did text me first and i responded basically returning the feelings. it could potentially become a thing if he responds back. do u think he would ignore this forever? i would never follow up, thats just not how i roll

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  • You need to have "the talk" with him. The one where you explain that romance is not the same as lust. There will always be women he wants to f*ck but he apparently longs for you company.

    Spend some time together on a regular basis and I think you will find you have something.

  • He misses your company. That doesn't mean he wants a deep relationship. It could only be friends with benefits. Though it could be very well that he loves you. It seems a bit confusing though. You might want make things clear before you meet

  • Hmmm well, he cared for you and opened up. He also told you he didn't just want you for sex, but he did tell you he thought of you while jerking off, and he sent you dick pics. Maybe he does like you, or maybe all that nice stuff was just a play to make you feel comfortable and then have sex. It's tough, to be honest.

  • Maybe he does really like you I don't text people I cut off

    • ya but he never replied back after i told him i miss his company too. maybe he did not want this to become a thing again.

  • Yeah. He doesn't miss you. He wants sex.

  • . maybe he just wants a friends with benefits thing... he obviously doesn't want a relationship... he might like u as a friend but wants to have sex with you... yeah id lean towards just misses your pussy..., seems nice but... I don't know u went for something he didn't want it and got mad it sounds or did u get mad? either way i wouldn't pursue it.

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