A week later said guy came over again, and we ended up having sex. It was fun and we exchanged numbers. A few days later we had sex again, and again about four or five days later. I've enjoyed having sex with him because it's been casual, he's voiced his attraction to me (if only purely physical), and I'm moving cities in about two weeks from today.
We haven't had sex in almost two weeks. Not a big deal, I'm not tripping over that, but I will admit I'm a bit frustrated/confused. A few days ago he texted me and I was hoping we could chill (and have sex), but he had work in the morning. He said he'd come over the next day, but he didn't. I had texted him late that night to see if he was coming over, and he didn't answer.
My my question is: if I text him again, would that be pathetic and/or would I seem needy? The thing is, I really have no feelings for him aside from lust. I really just like having sex with him, although he is a nice person. But I guess it's a weird pride thing/I'm conscious of how I seem to others, that I don't want to text him. I have had issues with anxiety since elementary school, and talking to guys that aren't just friends messes with me as well.
Anyway, what do y'all think? I know this really is a trivial issue and I could find someone else to mess with, but I was just curious. Part of me wants to text him and ask if he's "dtf" anymore lol. I'm quite inexperienced when it comes to men (when it's not strictly platonic relationships) so I don't want to make an ass of myself, at the same time I'm moving and I don't have any reason to trip over this. by the way, I know he has no obligation to be on call for me, since we're just having sex. I was just kinda stoked to have someone to mess around with, as juvenile as it sounds.
Anyway, I hope I made sense. If there's anything k left out that would help y'all give me a thorough answer, lemme know.
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