Do guys care if a girl hasn't been kissed and therefore isn't very good at it?

[Anonymous]

I'm eighteen and I've had 'boyfriends' when I was 16 and 17, but we never kissed because neither of us were willing to make the first move and I wasn't that keen on kissing them either cos I wasn't extremely attracted to them (they didn't last long).

One of my guy friends and I have been flirting a lot recently and I think the feeling may be mutual. I think we may end up kissing some time in the near future and it's worrying me cos I'm terrified I'll be really bad at it since I haven't had any practice (he's had enough practice). I don't want him to think I'm a bad kisser! This guy knows I've had boyfriends before so he's going to expect that I've had some practice at kissing!

Do guys really care how well a girl kisses? Or that she hasn't even been kissed? Would it be too weird to tell the guy something like "you're going to have to teach me (to kiss)? "

[somechick]

I think if you tell him in advance you haven't kissed anyone before and that you are out of practice, the guy should understand.

For me, I think the way one kiss is important. If I don't like the way a guy kiss, I typically wouldn't go back for more, if you know what I mean. But there are exceptions to the rule. If I like the guy a lot. And the first kiss between us isn't the greatest, I'll give him the benefit of the doubt. Just remember to not be sloppy and don't use so much tongue then you should be fine ;). Oh and try to practice on the back of your hand. I know, it sounds lame, but at least you are kissing on something!

[RedRoan311]

I have a similar situation going on. I explained to my boyfriend that I've never kissed anyone, though, and if anything he respected me for it. It made him take our relationship slower than he has with other girls, which is always nice:) He thought it was cute that I've never kissed anyone before, I'm just waiting for that perfect first kiss. Its something that you shouldn't rush, just let it happen. After all, you only get one first kiss, why give it to the wrong person?

[iLovesShoes]

Omg people

ok I'm going to tell you the truth. From what I know and from what my boyfriend told me.

I told my boyfriend that I have never kissed a guy before. I told him that I wasn't interested in them.

1. He'll LOVE to teach you (that means a lot of kissing for him)

and 2. If you say that you weren't interested in them, he'll know that he's special and you're interested in him!

So don't be scared he'll teach you his skills

[zbrawler]

Don't worry about it, being a good kisser is not the most important part in a relationship. In fact a lot of guys would find this to be endearing, it gives you a certain innocence that is attractive to most men looking for relationship.

[Thatguyoverthere]

Well in my opinion NOOO. Unless they mention they want an expert kisser I would say most guys do not care. My Girlfriend is the same way too. I really don't care one bit about if she is good at it or not. I just to kiss her.

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry but I don't have an answer, but I want to hear a girls perspective. I've only kissed 2 other girls on single separate occasions.