i've never agreed with a post so much in my life, i feel you girl. from what i've experienced, around this age almost everyone is interested in experimenting socially and sexually because it's what is generally accepted and they want to be accepted, but also because they feel like around this time, having a not-so-stable lifestyle is also accepted as well. it's a time for a lot of people (guys and girls alike, but i've noticed mainly guys) to try and get certain urges out of their system, but personally, just like you i don't agree with it either, and feel like it's a huge waste of time when you could be investing in something better.
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Their brains aren't done developing
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The guys that don't sleep around, can't sleep around. We can knock up multiple women a day, while you can only get pregnant once in 9 months, so men are more sexualy driven. This does however make sex a lot harder to get for men, 1% of men can knock up 100% of women, so 99% of men are superfluous to reproduction. Most men can't get sex on a regular basis without offering commitment. Stop being hypergamous, you are pursuing alpha males, who have the monopoly and can sleep with lots of women, you won't be anything to them but sex. There are plenty of men out there you can sell sex to for commitment.
Well i do the first 3 things you mentioned, but I also date and get in relationships. I have also never used a girl whatsoever, be it a hook up, or not. I make sure we both understand what it is, and when In a relationship, I stay loyal. Most guys will prefer to just sleep around, but there are many who don't.
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I'm sorry you get these guys... We're not all like this! I'm afraid guys feel like they need to have as any women as possible and I can't imagine a more unattractive feature than that... I guess you just keep going, you'll find one that wants the same as you. And most importantly, keep smiling :)
Those guys only think with their other head, its a stupid ego-game, getting drunk"yaaay"and pickin up as many girls in one night as possible, very good guys👏😒
Of course not all guys are like that (thankgod😂)
You will have to be very patient, but im sure you will find some decent guys, good luck😄👍
Hope this helped hahaha👌😄Saying that guys don't want relationships is like saying that girls don't want sex. It's not true. It's just that guys are pickier about relationships than girls are, and girls are pickier about sex than guys are. And, furthermore, if you're going after guys who very easily can get casual sex, then of course it's going to be hard for you to get them to commit.
The thing is, you're only noticing those types of guys. That is a clear signal of what you are attracted to, or what you're consistently around!
Maybe u are hanging out with too many people of the same subculture. Make sure to stay active in the outside world with an open mind, so u can meet new people! :-DMy guess: American laws try to stop people from having sex and drinking before they nearly reach their twenties. Once they get there they experiment with their new freedom for a few years. Since they can spend a bit of money on it once they get a job, they may overdo it and live a late exuberant puberty.
But that's just a a guess.perhaps this pic would do some explaining
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lol just kidding. anyways i think its all the testosterone that we have pumping through us at that age. we want to get as much ass as possible before we settle down in our 30s,There are plenty of guys who don't fit that mold... but you won't notice them because they're not hot. I wanna sleep around to get it out of my system. I don't wanna be 40 and feeling the need to 'relive' my youth because I never got to experience banging high school chicks. That happens... a lot.
... Meanwhile some guys are being dumped for being boring, or because they take relationships too seriously.
People are different. Perhaps try a different social scene.Sounds like you're surrounding yourself with the wrong crowd.
This is a good chance to vent n get it out
But honestly, being a guy has nothing to do with it
It's something both girls n boys of that age tend to do, mostly because of our American culture and ideals and hormonesneed patience. and maybe meet other circle of people...
Guys mature slower than girls. They're still driven by their hormones and don't really know what they want or need yet.
You should expand your search for the more mature ones or try older guys.I could say about girls in their 20's being similar...
For the same reason women are immature no matter what the age.
It's a last hurrah before the tedium that is adulthood.
Some of them are late bloomers.
The same reason women are. It's their TWENTIES!
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