Honestly, a man who cheats on his woman is no man at all. I think of them as cowards. Why get into a "committed" relationship if you are not going to be faithful..it just doesn't make any sense to me. But I really believe that you should stop beating yourself up over this. This guy who cheated on you clearly does not deserve to have you in his life. You are better than that. Don't compare yourself to someone who hurt you in such a horrible way. Do you honestly want to be the type of girl who sleeps with your "best friends" boyfriend? I'm guessing not. I haven't personally seen you, but I believe you when you tell us that you are an attractive woman. You are no less of a woman for being cheated on..but instead you are more of a woman for walking away from that relationship. Trust me, there is nothing less about you. He lost in the end, not you. Later down the road you will find a real man who will love you for who you are and will treat you like you truly deserve. Don't let this bump in the road stop you from finding what will truly make you happy. I know you are capable of getting through this, you just have to keep a positive mind and attitude even when times are tough. And remember, just because someone may have bigger breasts or other physical features that may outshine yours does not mean you are any less of a person. We were all made differently for a reason and we should all embrace who we are and what was given to us. Good luck and don't give up.
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you know what? all I got out of that was how you are a real woman. real women stick by there partners side without loosing loyalty. And real women have nice big hips, that is the sexiest thing about a woman to me. That guy, was not a man. A man knows what he wants and doesn't need to experiment if anything HE is insecure cause HE cheated, obviously he needed to feel like other girls wanted him and couldn't deal with the fact that he had a real woman by his side, I've seen countless girls cheat and can't last 2 months in a relationship cause they need to feel wanted and desirable. I will bet you anything that guy you were with will regret what he has done and try to get back with you. I can only imagine the heartbrake this has caused you, I'm sorry how people are. Just keep your head high.
Don't let that stupid asshole bitch of a man make you feel bad. I'm sure you're beautiful. There are a plethora of guys who prefer booty over boobs.
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