Personally I believe there's 7 billion people on the planet. So nobodies that special. I've got 50+ family members that I see regularly and I'm forever tied too. They're the only people I bother mending relationships with because my relationship with them is about more than just me. I'm a forgiving person. I forgive people so I can move on with my life but actions have consequences so if I feel wronged by you and I don't have any true binding reason to keep you around I'll cut you loose. I'll forgive you but you'll probably never know I did. Because forgiveness isn't the same as allowing people back into your life. When people ask for forgiveness and continually try to get back into my good graces I know they weren't apologizing because they hurt me they're apologizing because my reaction was hurting them. So it's not that I'm unforgiving I'm just unsempathetic to people who can't deal with the consequences of their actions. The only people that get that luxury are children. It's cold but I'm just not in the business of willfully surrounding myself with people that hurt me. I mean I'll forgive little stuff like you accidentally wrecked my car or forgot my birthday or something. But stuff like cheating on me or robbing me. That's not an accident. That's a decision and my decision in response to something like that is to move on.
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We can't answer that. Obviously something happened to you. We have no idea what. We have no way to judge if he was right not to forgive. One event does not mean you can generalize to a whole gender.
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We are forgiving to those who earns their forgiveness.
That's a general statement that is both meaningless and without merit. WHO are you referring to? In what situation? How can you broad-brush all men like that? Do you know all of them?
What are you not being forgiven for?
I don't think all men are like that.
depends on the guy brah
Because we don't feel appreciated.
All generalizations are false, including this one.
What have I done now 😔
Why? Because you cheated on your boyfriend?
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