Do guys prefer a quickie?

[Anonymous]

Really confused, been flirting with a guy for months. Sending each other really rude texts and he's been telling me how good it will be for me. Anyway we finally book a hotel and have sex three times each time lasting about 5/10 mins before he cums (3x for him barely once for me) then we chat watch a bit of tv and go home an hour later. Do guys prefer quickies? Is he just inexperienced in bed? I did text him and said I've never felt so disappointed since I found out Santa wasn't real, was that too harsh? I put lol at the end and did say if there's a next time I'm in control, am I likely to hear from him again? He is super confident so my comments won't be too cutting for him, if he had felt awkward I wouldn't have said anything.

[Anonymous]

that sounds like awful sex... was there even any foreplay... i dont think the text was too harsh if he is the way you say he is, but with men's egos you never know, they act super confident but a critical comment could upset them more than they will let on. Also if you both had sex three times why didn't you say something in person at least after the second time? In my experience men try to make a woman cum first unless they are rushing and want to get to sex quick and would still make a quick attempt to get the woman off. was he in a rush? or maybe he really wanted you, the speed could signal eagerness lol or hasn't had sex in a while... otherwise he is kind of selfish or misguided

[Asker]

I did say to him the second time, I was almost there then but he came to quick. The last time I did sort of get myself there i had to keep telling him to stay still. He said he hadn't had sex for a few weeks and usually lasts longer after a drink. I think he expects me to contact him as he said I wouldn't dare delete his number. He knows I'm quite taken by him gggrrrrrr!!!

[Opinion Owner]

If you dont hear from him again dont even bother. He doesn't sound like a man to be taken with and the sex is bad? lol it is not worth it. if you have sex with him again and it is more of the same then he doesn't care about pleasure or you need to be more demanding about what you want. Not every man is good in bed but they are those who are good at one thing or follow instructions well, if he turns out to be neither... RUN... lol

[madhatters4]

prefer it? no

[Asker]

What do you think he just lost control then? I feel bad if I've been too harsh and he was embarrassed by his performance but he seemed to think it normal

[madhatters4]

i don't think this had anything to do with his preference and more to do with him just being a guy who goes for 5-10 minutes.

[Asker]

Selfish then?

[madhatters4]

no. just lacks sexual stamina.

[R3d_Anonymous]

The average lasting time in bed is 4-8 minutes.

[Ihav2fart]

Nahh, I prefer a slowie

[Asker]

Perhaps I wasn't all I cracked up to be for him then and he just wanted to get it over and done with as quick as possible lol!!

[Ihav2fart]

Maybe he just doesn't last long.