This guy ghosted me on... What to do?
I met this really attractive guy online, he was flirty and talkative & asked to meet up for a drink. The date went well (or so I thought). He said he really wanted to kiss me, He did and it was great. He invited me back to his, to which I agreed (it was 7pm). he was holding my hand the whole ride there. WE didn't HAVE SEX (I didn't want to) & he never even initiate or come across as if he wanted to which I thought was a good sign. Instead, we talked, laughed. he gave me some comfortable clothes to put on. It was Sunday night, I told him Im setting my alarm incase I fall asleep as I have work in the morning & need to go home first. We fell asleep, it went off & I was about to get up but he pulled me back & cuddled me, he kissed/cuddled & held me all night, even in the morning! When we finally woke up. I said I got to go & he said he's got work too. He offered to drive me to the tube station, which he did. he kissed me goodbye (he initiated this not me) & hugged me.
I hadn't heard from him for a couple of days after but I also didn't have a chance to reach out either because I was super busy with work. Wednesday evening I hit him up on Facebook saying "hey :)" and he ignores me! I thought maybe he's busy. But he is still uploading posts &it shows that's he's read my message & been online many times since then WTF? What happened.. Fair enough if he's just not into me, but I dont get it because it was HIM who initiated all the affection in the first place.
I am truly offended :(
The weird thing is that he still has me as a friend on Facebook so its really awkward and embarrassing for me. I tend not to get too hung up on dates and i don't mind if it doesn't work out but i HATE the rudeness.. i actually wanted to ask him the name of a song we heard that night... but now I'm just super confused and offended by his rude attitude. should i remove him as a friend?
I met this really attractive guy online, he was flirty and talkative & asked to meet up for a drink. The date went well (or so I thought). He said he really wanted to kiss me, He did and it was great. He invited me back to his, to which I agreed (it was 7pm). he was holding my hand the whole ride there. WE didn't HAVE SEX (I didn't want to) & he never even initiate or come across as if he wanted to which I thought was a good sign. Instead, we talked, laughed. he gave me some comfortable clothes to put on. It was Sunday night, I told him Im setting my alarm incase I fall asleep as I have work in the morning & need to go home first. We fell asleep, it went off & I was about to get up but he pulled me back & cuddled me, he kissed/cuddled & held me all night, even in the morning! When we finally woke up. I said I got to go & he said he's got work too. He offered to drive me to the tube station, which he did. he kissed me goodbye (he initiated this not me) & hugged me.
I hadn't heard from him for a couple of days after but I also didn't have a chance to reach out either because I was super busy with work. Wednesday evening I hit him up on Facebook saying "hey :)" and he ignores me! I thought maybe he's busy. But he is still uploading posts &it shows that's he's read my message & been online many times since then WTF? What happened.. Fair enough if he's just not into me, but I dont get it because it was HIM who initiated all the affection in the first place.
I am truly offended :(
The weird thing is that he still has me as a friend on Facebook so its really awkward and embarrassing for me. I tend not to get too hung up on dates and i don't mind if it doesn't work out but i HATE the rudeness.. i actually wanted to ask him the name of a song we heard that night... but now I'm just super confused and offended by his rude attitude. should i remove him as a friend?
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