Hello, so there is this guy with me in uni and basically used to follow me wherever I go, its freaky and stares WAY to much, like we have eye contact for 2-3 seconds. We never talked at all. Not a single word,. He has this hard to explain expression and I am always the one who looks away. My friend caught him soo many times looking from far away and from close when I don't pay attention. I am not interested to tell you the truth, I mean he is cute an all. But he is known for his HUGE ego. He has never had any classes with me, but the second term he was in one of my classes and then switched to another class even though all his friends were in that class. I heard his friends saying that they have no idea why he switched. And I remember one day when he was still in the class the professor told him to read. And when he read. His voice was stuttering and he couldn't read right. It looked weird because he"usually has a loud voice and is not shy at all. Anyway, then I started ignoring him and not when he looks I don't look (because I am afraid he is playing around) and when he saw I was doing that after about a 2-3 weeks he started to look up as if he can't see me. And its obvious VERYYYY obvious that he is pretending to not see me. Its like I did something to him, I was simply not keeping eye contact long, not like before, I never pretended I couldn't see him. And now. Recently he is starting to stare again.!. What exactly is this guys problem? What does he want. Its realllly confusing me. I would think that after I showed him that I am not interested he would completely stop. What do you think?
Quick things that happened only when I am around. My friends told me that he changes when I come in to the area:
*his friends always look at me
*he talks really loud when I am around
*stands right next to me and talks to all the girls EXCEPT me
*has shown-off several times when I am around
*tries to make me jealous by whispering in other girl's ears
*looks away when we pass by from close, but from far away makes eye contact
*gives a very hard to explain look on his face
*sees if I am looking at him
Thanks***
Quick things that happened only when I am around. My friends told me that he changes when I come in to the area:
*his friends always look at me
*he talks really loud when I am around
*stands right next to me and talks to all the girls EXCEPT me
*has shown-off several times when I am around
*tries to make me jealous by whispering in other girl's ears
*looks away when we pass by from close, but from far away makes eye contact
*gives a very hard to explain look on his face
*sees if I am looking at him
Thanks***
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Just ask. You've got mountains of evidence that he might like you, but you'll never know if you don't just ask. If you don't want to ask, and since you don't care about him in that way, then just start making yourself less seen by him. Like switch classes or something lol he sounds like a weird little perv
I think he really does like you,but when you stopped looking at him, he may have gotten the idea your not interested in him which made him not look at you anymore. The best thing to do is find some time to talk alone with him and get it all out. Maybe he's scared to talk you, due to his speech problem. Try and talk to him about it.
Just ask him. He may like you or may just want to make you feel uncomfortable. Some people like to see how long people can stand the tormenting.