My crush hugs other girls but not me... He treats me differently by not touching me? How can I stand out from the other girls he talks to?

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So there's this guy I met a couple weeks ago at college. He asked me to coffee after I was the one who lwent up and talked to him first. It seems like he has various female friends... He isn't like a Casanova jock type.. He's a small kinda nerdy but super cute and cool dude. I don't think he has girls after him a lot.. He could. I really don't know. When we see each other, the first time he hugged me.. But after that he doesn't. Yet, with other girls, like today, a girl went up and hugged him and it was really awkward for me because I was talking to him. Or another time he was walking beside me and saw this other chick and they were acting like good buds. And then there's me.. He doesn't hug me or anything.

Today I saw him and talked to him, he was with a guy friend. And after I left I heard his friend say "who was that?" And he said that was "___my name, and where I stayed at here__" and I didn't hear what else. I know I'm attractive.. I've never been put in the Friendzone. But this guy just is so sociable and talks to a lot of females and males. I feel like I have no chance. He asked me to have coffee again this weekend.. So I don't know what to expect or how to tell. I can't tell his flirting vs not just because he is so friendly. There was a point where he looked at me last time in that.. Starry eyed way.. I didn't imagine it.. But still.. I want to be different than all the other girls he sees but I don't know how besides being attractive. I fall short everywhere else because I'm terribly shy and introverted.
My crush hugs other girls but not me... He treats me differently by not touching me? How can I stand out from the other girls he talks to?
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