Do guys like it when girls initiate physical contact?

[Dorrky]

Small things like hand holding, leaning closer, hugs, and cuddling. Why or why not?

[rebekahj391]

Of course they do :) Don't you feel special if your guy pecks you on the forehead or wraps his arm around you? Being affectionate makes them feel special too :)

If you're shy or nervous, start with something easy, like brushing your hand against his so he holds your hand or lightly running your hand across his arm to get his attention or something. No reason to be nervous if he likes you- even if you DO mess up, you can laugh it off with him. (Stuff like that makes people closer and creates inside jokes :P )

[Dorrky]

Guys have never kissed my forehead or wrapped their arms around me 🙈 I'm inexperienced

[rebekahj391]

That's ok! You're young.

[rosethorns36]

yes, personally I don't have enough confidence to do it. secondly even if i don't except it, i still feel pretty happy to even be noticed... girls are sensitive no matter what, and even if your gonna make a move on a girl, she will become aware of you and if u play ur cards right she'll won't turn u don a second time. Just pay attention to the atmosphere and here facial expressions

[BrunetteNYC]

If I know the guy is into me then it just comes naturally, and of course, wanting to be closer to him, I can't 100% keep my hands off him. Little things, stroking his hair, leaning my head on his shoulder while sitting next to him, rubbing his shoulders. He didn't exactly ask me to stop so I'm guessing he didn't mind lol

[Homicidal_Queen]

I'm sure they do. That way they dont have to be nervous about "Omg should I hug her? hold her hand? keep my distance?" and they won't have to worry about if they are being weird or creepy or if their advances are wanted.
I know i love it when others initiate the contact, and i know they love it when i do.

[Frost_Byt3]

Yes, i love it. I am very affectionate, but when i have to do all the initiating I'm afraid that she thinks I'm being annoying or clingy. Its very reassuring when she initiates.

[Punkbuster107]

So true.

[Agrojag]

Exactly. I'm the same way.

[MrOracle]

As long as the guy is clearly interested in you, then, absolutely, yes.

[the_illest]

I do. It's so common to call guys dogs and talk about how all they want is sex, etc. So it's kind of nerve-wracking to initiate anything, because you're constantly thinking "is she going to think I'm only doing this for sex" or "am I a creeper now" so it's really nice when the girl initiates it. Refreshing even

[Doffydood]

It's a bit creepy, to be honest. If someone was doing that to me, I might consider distancing myself a bit.
As for why, I'm just really not a touchy-feely person, but you'd instantly realise that if you tried to hug me D:
Anyway, most people probably enjoy it, so you've got nothing to worry about :)

[FrenchEmma]

I totally agree with you (bc we're the same age?)

[Doffydood]

@FrenchEmma Someone understands! :D

[Prof_Don]

Guys love that stuff, it's nice to not always have to guess what the girl's interest level is in us.

To be blunt us guys are almost never 100% certain about her interest, we always have to make hypotheses about her interest level in us because u gals are so passive! :-P

[answersplease]

If it's a girlfriend then yessss!! Plus I remember one time I was with some friends and they all went and danced. I suck at dancing so it was just me watching them from afar and I was talking to this girl I just met. Then suddenly she took my hand and we went up to the dance floor. Something about that moment I just loved

[Sebastian25]

I hate that people think just cause we are men we dont absolutely love getting gestures of love and affection! When a girl holds my hand it makes me more confident and guys like to know that you aren't shy! They like confidence in girls! I do and it really makes me happy that a girl can openly show me how she feels

[Woosy56]

Is this really a question? Long as your not a clingy attention whore, then it's usually OK with me. there is a time and place for such things, if we're in the middle of target shopping center that's a little different. Now if we're at my flat anything goes. Just like everything else I'm life have a balance. :)

[Conscience_for_sale]

I like it when the girl initiates physical contact because it shows someone who is willing to take charge of her needs and goes for it. It's a huge turn on for me.

[Red_Arrow]

At that age they are adjusting to changing feelings about girls in general. for a while they have known that they are interested, but not sure exactly how or how much. So many will love it, but many will be scared by it.

[OpenWine]

Yea since I haven't dated for about 2 years the fact of me feeling afection is slowly crushing in pieces.
A girl iniciating it or just making herself noticeable enough around me would help me get the point but when I observate the girl threats everyone this way then there is no value in it's actions.

[TickleMyPickle4Fun]

Well, when i am handcuffed to the bed, completely naked, unable to cover my body or get away... and she tickles me to watch me squirm which causes my cock to flop around...
That makes me REALLY NERVOUS when she initiates that contact!

But it is good if she touches my cock to make it grow harder and thicker! (at least until i cum. Then my cock becomes REEEAAAALLLYYY TICKLISH!!!)

[godfatherfan]

A lot more then when we have to do it. Men get the shaft in that we have to ask the woman out, we are expected to pick things and plan things. I hate that. I would love for her to take the lead in most things.. it is always a nice surprise.

[heavensgift2girls]

If I like the girl, and the situation is appropriate, then yes.

[KayleyHerremans]

As a girl, I am just gonna say that I love it when guys do the hand holding, leaning closer, hugs, and cuddling.

[Anonymous]

If they are attracted to the girl, sure. They love it.

[K-Cool-Dude]

I love it when they do that to ne. Because I am kind of shy person in reality and really abstain from initiating such things. If she does it, I feel really confident talking about various things with her.

[Pat8707]

Oh my god you can't even imagine. You don't know how much easier that makes it on us.

[Dorrky]

Hahaha I'm nervous to initiate stuff with this one guy

[Pat8707]

Well are you close or bf/gf yet? If so, you really shouldn't be. But then again, you are 14, so if you don't feel comfortable with it definitely don't do it.

[Dorrky]

I have a "flirty personality" apparently haha. I'm friends with this one guy and we told each other that we kinda like each other. I'm nervous that if i try subtle touches and affectionate stuff he won't like it or i will mess things up

[Pat8707]

Honestly, I couldn't tell you for your age, but I do remember that I wouldn't have minded in my late teens.

[Dorrky]

Thanks :) I'm almost 15

[Moose2coolvargas]

Yeah intiating contact whether text, in person whatever sure would help ease anxiety. I start feeling creepy if I'm the only one intiating, like I can't tell when to just stop, then it makes awkward since I keep going if that makes any sense

[Arya_98]

Ofcourse I like it when she does it.. Well, I mean it's how the internal human circuitry is built... You strive for affection and it kinda of makes me feel that she's comfortable with me, secure with me and of course possessive about me..
But at the other hand if that exceeds the limit it becomes kind of irritating...

[SpecJack]

Yes! That's a brave girl, and I like girls who can take charge when things aren't exactly progressing well :)

[Lizabeth989]

So this guy n I are the closest of friends anyways I'm always all over him and he's all over me and he like it which is weird because he's my ex yet we stay all over each other!!👉🏾👌🏽