How do I make my boyfriend wash his junk better?

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Okay so i love my man but I have noticed a foul fishy type smell coming from his nether regions like when he re adjusts it or whoops it out... its so bad. He isn't too good with taking long enough showers and isn't the cleanest person but he got better for a while after telling him one minute showers dont cut it. Now we havnt seen each other for a few weeks he has reverted back to old habits it seems and i can't bare to be around him because the smell makes me queazy. Its not his jizz but im guessing he just isn't washing his junk right. How do i tell him in a nice wau that he needs to be more thorough when in the shower without hurting his feelings as he already has low self esteem? Im pretty sure everyone else can smell it too.

mik3y81 · Accepted Answer

If it's especially pungent, it might not be that he's not washing properly. He might have a minor fungal infection. Like athlete's foot, his "junk" is in a place where the sun does not often shine. If one wears tight underwear, and one's junk becomes hot and sweaty from daily activity, it's easy to get funky by the time the afternoon rolls around. I advise pinpointing the source of his "junk funk".

The best time would be while he's sleeping, as he won't notice you sniffing around his junk and won't lose any esteem that way. (Sarcasm alert: I was joking. I do not advise molesting your boyfriend while sleeping.) Just talk to him about it. Tell him you like his dick, but the smell is a big turn off. If he knows that you want him (just not stinky) I think he'll be OK.

I'd advise getting him some cream, changing to loose fitting boxers (that will help him to keep his junk dry), and maybe seeing a doctor if it's serious, or if you (plural) want something stronger than OTC medication.

By the way, you're right. It's not your responsibility to clean his junk for him.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It is his jizz. He is jerking off into his underwear and pulling it up and not cleaning himself. It produces the same exact smell as women will create as its primarily the same bodily fluid drying and essentially stinking like fish. The difference is his anatomy is on the outside so he is likely not cleaning up afterwards, that fishy smell doesn't come from sweaty balls. Girls love sweaty ball smell, smells musty like a baseball hat that has been sweated into and dried. Girls love that smell of they are into men as it's loaded with fermones. However that fishy smell is dried jizz and dirty drawers

loofah · Accepted Answer

You can talk to him about it and still be sensitive about it since he has low self esteem. Voice you love him and want to help, and you don't know how else to bring it up but the smell is hard for you to handle and you don't want to let it affect the sex. It helps to say it's normal to have a smell but sometimes not enough washing can worsen it for any of us and some just sweat more so it's a bit harder to keep up.

BushBabyBoo · Accepted Answer

I have the same problem with a friend of mine, it's probably the reason I would never ever ever consider dating him. Honestly you could just tell him he needs to make more of an effort because it's difficult to be intimate or whatever with him. Or you could talk to his mother haha.

Solstice88 · Accepted Answer

No sex until he starts cleaning things better. He isn’t a child, he shouldn’t need to be told how to wash himself, there’s no excuse. And send him for a sexual health screening incase it’s a sexually transmitted disease or something that needs treatment.

Xelebrum · Answer

Why not take a shower with him and you both wash each other?

nathaliaa · Answer

I don't think there's a good way of saying it, he should know and smell himself. You're his girlfriend/partner I'm sure you don't to take the role of a mother to him.

Nomad69 · Answer

Get a shower with him and rub a bar of soap against his cock or a little body wash then moisturize it for him and dry or suck it off and ta da fixed. He could have a uti that does that in guys I do believe

Anonymous · Answer

ROFL, I keep myself clean and I never get to have sex. Your boyfriend doesn't take showers and he gets laid, LOOOOOOOOL. I seriously think I'm in the wrong planet. I don't even got a job and I stay clean, LOOOOOOOOL. I am so tired of being jealous of people with sex lives. Why was I chosen to save this planet?

Grisbosque · Answer

act like his mom and wash it for him. he will probably be embarrassed enough to clean up his act.

26ukdude · Answer

Its called smeg, tell him to wash under his foreskin thats kinda disgusting there's no excuse for it. Or he could have thrush

DodgersGM · Answer

You've just gotta be straight up with him.  "I love you so much, but this is becoming a real problem for me. "

RachelBrigs · Answer

You're just gonna have to be up front and direct about it or he's just not gonna get it

Anonymous · Answer

Fishy is more from a girl... Maybe he needs to shave? Just take a shower or bath and wash him so he'll get the idea without insult

robbiem · Answer

give him a hint same as woman I smelled some nasty ones in my life... then I have had the ones that smelled nice down there enough to lick for hours

Anonymous · Answer

Fishy? Sounds like he may be cheating. But take a shower with him and wash him to your liking.

kangle · Answer

Be direct and tell him.

ConsultantIsBack · Answer

That's gross, just tell him

Anonymous · Answer

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