Why is it okay for a girl to stalk a guy? But it's not okay for a guy to stalk a girl? why? how come?
How come the consequences are more severe if a guy stalks a girl? or just gets accused of stalking a girl? That's what I f***in' hate about society, that if a guy gets accused of stalking a girl, the consequences for him will be severe, but if a girl is accused of stalking a guy, the cops, or police will usually go easy on her. Because often times the guy never meant to stalk the girl in the first place, the guy was just doing his job, his gender role in society because girls do not chase or pursue guys, like girls do not seek out potential boyfriends. The reason why is because, even though I am 22 now, when I was 16, I was accused of stalking a girl, good thing I was not arrested and there was no charges pressed against me, except that I was interrogated by 2 or 3 security guards and a Cop, and the Cop was all tough with me. I still hate that Cop and that girl who accused me of stalking her with a huge passion.
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Are we talking social or legal consequences?
Social consequences = both the same. If a girl stalks a guy, she's a nutcase... if a guy stalks a girl, he's a nutcase.
The law is more interested in men stalking women because stalking is usually a form of malicious intent and tends to preclude violence. There are many cases of men who have stalked and then killed women. I've never heard of the reversal.
Yes, there are some reasons why it sucks to be a man (the law may come down heavier on you), but if you think there are no men out there who lie... you are very much mistaken. There are many, many disadvantages to being female too, so I wouldn't turn it into a gender thing.
I think the real people you should blame is those cops as they don't seem to be doing their jobs well.
What Girls Said 6
It's not ok for anybody to stalk anybody. I think that girls are quicker to label actions 'stalking' than guys are. I know a lot of girls who like to think girls are sooooo interested in them when they really aren't doing anything unusual but the girl will be like 'omg he's stalking me, he's totally a stalker, not another one' when the poor guy has just texted her or something. Because of this guys are glad when it's the girl chasing a bit at first and wouldn't label that 'stalking' like some girls might.
wtf its not okay for a girl to stalk a guy. clearly you have a warped mindset and you don't understand that stalking is never okay. how do you know the cops will go easy on a girl who has been accused of stalking? how many girls do you know that have been accused of stalking and how do you know what their consequences were?
a girl doesn't have to directly say "im not interested". you're the one with the problem. every other guy can understand nonverbal signals so why are you so special that you don't get it? also if most girls went around being direct like that we'd be called ballbusters and bitches. so society has made it so we have to dismiss you indirectly so we aren't accused of damaging your ego and being a bitch.
just move on. the girl is obviously not interested in you. also you'll probably never be able to get a girlfriend if word gets out that you're a stalker weirdo
Wellfirst off you need to move on. And stalking anyone is not cool. If you did stalk her, they had every right to interrogate you, and you are very lucky they didn't arrest you. But if you weren't stalking her, you should just be grateful that you didn't get arrested, because that would have been a whole 'nother hell.
Theres a fine line between pursuing and stalking. Its hard to say for your situation because I don't know anything about it...