How do you out play the player?

[SarahPurpleRox]

How do you out play the player? Hey guys & girls do you have any advice on how to out play the player? How to play a player in dating?

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p.s I am a former player I quit the game and I'm going back in.

[OutOfMyElement43]

How to out play the player? I like this question! Oh, it's very possible. The most effective method is to mimic his game. Play his/her game on his/her terms mimicking his/her behavior. Pick out specific patterns in his/her behavior and turn the mimic into mocking. Start slowly; continue slow and stealthy. Turn the mimic in mocking. Speed up the mocking, and quickly strike with mock and scorn. Keep striking with the mock and scorn, at different times in different places, break down every detail of the player’s behavior and mock and scorn.

This must be dragged out over a long period. Every time you mock and scorn, you humiliate in increments. The player won't stop playing because he thinks he/she is going to beat you. Eventually, the player is all out of game. The player has played you in every way he/she knows how. The player will realize eventually he/she was never playing you. The player realizes you've been playing him/her the entire time!

It's sad and pathetic to see a player at the end of her game. Players will fall in love with the person who played them. Unfortunately, the person in control feels nothing but disdain for the player. It was a fun game but at the end of a game there's a winner and a loser. Winners don't like losers.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nxATWmbxIP0

[SarahPurpleRox]

Good answer!!!

[OutOfMyElement43]

Than You! This is the easiest way to weed out suspicious behavior. We do it as children. No one wants to get "played." If I learn I'm being played, I play back, and I don't stop until I win. I've been in business long enough to know in almost all negotiations there is something I don't know; something the other person doesn't want me to know. I have to find out what that something is in order to make the right decision. Dating is a negotiation...

[OutOfMyElement43]

If my partner is being honest, I'll know. If she's trying to f*** with my head, I'll break her. The same way I'd break someone trying to rip me off. I like to win. People depend on me to win. There are times I lose, but I don't lose often. Every time I've lost; I've alway set myself up for the loss. You get burned so many times; you learn "don't be stupid!"

[ArtistBboy]

It won't happen. There's a few methods you could try, but a GOOD player would spot these things and move on, long before you knew what hit you. Don't waste your breath, it rarely works to outsmart someone that has practiced this for a while. if you know of this man as a player, he will be a player until he is outsmarted, which takes a lot of patience and heartache in the meantime.

~ ArtistBBoy

[SarahPurpleRox]

But he's gone through every girl in the school what's e gonna do move?

[ArtistBboy]

As a former player, just use your previous smarts to understand the situation. What is THIS player after? Is he looking for "fun", for a one night stand, for a devoted relationship. Even players have something they look for, if you can be the best at that certain characteristic and then be the player (showing him that you have other opportunities) it will make him fight harder for you; however, if he ever obtains what he wants and has his fill, he will move on. You're attempting the inevitable.

[ArtistBboy]

If he has to, yeah. But he doesn't have to. If he doesn't have a reputation for "using women" but instead a reputation of "not staying in a stable relationship" women will fight for him MORE than other men, it's just the way things appear to work. However if he has the reputation of using women, then I strongly advise reconsidering your sights anyways. I mean- what's so thrilling about being used and disregarded? Most players have hurtful reputations but within reason. They aren't trying to hurt

[ArtistBboy]

- women intentionally. No, instead they are trying to find their fill in whatever they do. They could snowboard for a living and be content without having a relationship. A player is someone that has mastered the art of getting what he wants and fighting for it, especially to the point of not feeling an emotional attatchment to an object he cannot obtain. He knows he can obtain it; however, it will need a different approach than what is intended.

That is how my mind thinks towads this.

[Anonymous]

It's not possibe a females emotions are always there.Guys aren't they don't care if you don't or do pay attention to them because there are other girls who will listen to them.Sadly I would know about this just ignore him and pay no attention to him.

[ArtistBboy]

Agreed +1

[The_Box]

That doesn't make any sense.

[Opinion Owner]

In other words forget about him he's not worth it

[The_Box]

Oh, iirc this is fairly easy. You basically flirt with him and show interest but refuse to give him what he wants while in the mean time giving those around him what they want. It'll either floor his confidence or increase his determination to get you. At that point, you play a very prolonged version of hard to get until he succumbs. He'll have to give up eventually, but you'll always be the one he could never have.

[stercor]

It's not a competition. Refuse to play. Be dignified.

[ArtistBboy]

Agreed. +1

[GIntrovert]

Don't think you can... you can only play the "nice guys". - please don't...

[matthouston17]

I'd have to teach you. why don't you inbox me sometime and we'll talk about how good you are at it?