He called me a dumb ass?

[Anonymous]

When I dropped my phone my crush went down to pick it up and called me a dumbass. Is that a Terrible sign? He doesn't respect me does he? Ugh

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He said it in a jokingly manner

[SpeakNoEvil]

He's saying it in a teasing way to get to you. If he was like "oh you dropped your phone" you'd be like 'oh thanks' but since he called you a dumb ass you're all hung up about him and thinking about him. Guys do that a lot. Of course he respects you, why would he pick up your phone for you if he didn't respect you?

[Anonymous]

"He said it in a jokingly manner" Then he was definitely joking. I would take it as disrespect if you guys never talked before or only had minimal contact. Which is kind of what I'm assuming since if that wasn't the case, you probably wouldn't have asked this question.

[falafelany1]

I would not appreciate being called a dumbass. No matter what his intentions flirting or being rude... it just sounds rude.

[Nati77]

Maybe he was trying to be "funny".. like to tease you or something.. if that´s not the case you can forget about him

[fauchelevent]

If it was jokingly, he probably just meant it as a joke and you don't need to take it so seriously.

[RedRobin]

He was probably joking, try not to worry about it 😊

[sharkman154]

Sounds like the typical immature guy relationship tactic. He could be picking on you cause he likes you and is playing hard to get but relationships that involve picking on each other tend to be short lived

[Star_Lord]

Maybe he will said it agian, since he called you dumbass, you should dump him before he say that to you agian, he have no respect to you, you will get sick of it one day soon

[hifromkai]

Relax... It's a joke... My god not every little thing is a fucking puzzle or mystery that you have to solve.. it's never that complicated when it's something that. small unless there's actually something wrong.

[EllaC]

Depends on the way he said it... i say stupid and rude shit when I'm nervous, so maybe that?

[JoshuaGema]

Yes unless he is treating u how he wants to be treated... call him the same when given the opportunity and then you will know.

[mysticbeing]

He give more importance to things than you i feel, dropping things happens with everyone, but it depend upon the way he said it.

[Vivianespinoza]

Your reading too far into this maybe he was just nervous and that's what came out

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Ahahaha yup just learn to take it, he sounds like an honest man.

[ElizabethBiersack]

He was just bugging you, my friends say stuff like that to me sonetimes

[Deadpool7699]

Totally overthinking it, Iv'e had fun banter with every girl I've dated

[adamski24]

He was extracting the urine out of you.
He was just joking with you.
It's a good sign.

[RainbowFanGirl]

I think he was saying it in a joking manner. Don't take it to hard.

[orphan]

he was needling you.

not being serious.

[Scottyboy160]

It's just a playful insult not meant to be taken seriously

[Poikkalodik]

Depends on the tone. Sometimes, I just call my friends 'dumbass' as a joke.

[jacobwright2990]

He was joking don't take it seriously

[ashisimo]

depends on the way he said it

[xslope]

It's all in the tone he said it

[Anonymous]

thats a good sign. he is honest. he doesn't kiss your ass

[Thatweirdone_]

Think he was joking about