three reasons:
1) women constantly over rate their own desirability, and under rate a mans. When participants (both men and women) rate a sample of men and women on a scale of 1-10, and then people on the scale rate themselves, women CONSISTENTLY rate themselves higher.
Think you're a 9? Chances are, you're a 7.
What is more, while guys who are 7s are more than happy with girls who are 7s, girls who are 7s see guys who are 7s as below them, and DEMAND an 8 or an 9.
2) women lead them on. From small talk to teasing to hints at promises to telling him over and over how much they depend on him and that he is their rock, they manipulate him into staying close, while never letting things go further. They lead him to believe that MAYBE something more than friends could happen, one day, and so they just need to keep doing what they are doing. In reality, she has no interest in him, but knows that if he knows that, he'll take off, which means she doesn't get free rides, or a couch to crash on, or a nice dinner when he wants to treat, or someone to call when she needs a couch moved. She is manipulating him because she wants what he is willing to provide someone he thinks he could have a chance with.
3) he's a retard who doesn't know what "friend zone" is. If he has romantic feelings for her, and she sees him as nothing more than a friend, he is not friend zoned. She is not taking advantage of, or manipulating him. She has made her interest, or rather, lack there of, very clear. She is happy to be friends, she is BLUNT that she wants to be nothing more than that, and he is being a beta bitch by thinking he is friendzoned. In reality, she has all the right in the world to decide she wants nothing more from him, and he has no right to think she is obligated to want him back.
this is probably 60% of "friend zoned" guys. The friend zone is real, but most guys who think they are in it are just throwing a one man-child pity party.
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What you call ugly might be attractive to someone else.
You can't rule everyone under one thumb saying "this is how its suppose to be, what I say and think is absolute and should be written in golden in the bible".
If you really think about this people, the way you just wrote above, I've a news flash for you, you are a very immature and egotistical girl from the inside. Your age is between 25-29 right? Give it another 5 years than the girls who would be your age right now, would be saying the same stuff about you, then you would understand ;)
I couldn't agree more. In my opinion the friendzone doesn't actually exist because those guys are doing it to themselves... They choose a girl based on her physical attractiveness and then expect her to like him for his personality. Double standards or what? The worst thing is that they don't realize their own mistake and blame the girl for not liking him back. Some guys can get really bitte... Let's be realistic, most people date within their own league. That's why I don't feel sorry for those guys. They're not as nice as they'd like to believe...
I think relationship choices are based on more than just appearances - people choose a partner for a combination of reasons, not just "hotness". But I agree, both genders get friend zoned and yet, every person has the right to choose to friend zone whoever they want. I would say, however, that guy tend to do it less because many of them would readily have sex with women they are not really interested in.
Preach girl! Men are delusional and entitled! They expect us to downgrade when they wouldn't even dream of it!!
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actually i agree with this, you are right most of guys and girls are not 8-10 and guys who are friendzoned, usually know theyre not worth the girls time so they act all clingy and nice cause they know looks wise they nothing to offer, like sure you want to be attracted to her but even for girls looks play a big role in liking someone.
If a guy is having no success with good-looking girls, he's probably having no success with average-looking or ugly girls either. Girls' preferences are remarkably undiverse compared to guys'.
And it's not primarily about a guy's looks. It's about his charm or lack thereof. There's plenty of good-looking guys who can't get girls because they lack charm.As an ugly guy I can't even get friendzoned. For example, this one girl who was training me st my clinical school, she started to talk to me and she trained me one day and then after that she ignores me. She talks with every other student but me and it really makes me feel ugly. And I didn't say anything to suggest anything like I was interested. Only school related.
Ugly guys complaining about being friendzoned by "7-10 rated dream girl" are only a small part of the picture! Plenty of average looking guys get friendzoned by average and even BELOW average looking girls! And a man can be very handsome looking and STILL get friendzoned by girls of ALL ratings if he is seen as too nice!
Actually I think a fat girl has a better chance of having sex with a hot guy than a fat guy does of having sex with a hot girl.
For casual sex guys are more willing to lower their standards, while girls tend to RAISE theirs.I really don't care about physical appearance that much. If I find a woman who clicks with me and is on a high level intellectually, I'd be ecstatic. It's only about tits n ass and physical appearance if you're a young man, or if you're just immature.
Because it deflects attention from the real issue. And it's not exclusivsd to guys, girls set the bar at 9.5 amnd complain that they are single when they hit 30.
Because nobody (men and women) likes to be friend zoned. Especially not by shallow people.
Why is that even a question?why do hos complain about double standards? they dont make the cut.
Why do ugly girls complain about being friend zoned? In the dark we're all beautiful or ugly, at choice.
That ugly, fat girl will friendzone the ugly, fat guy. It goes both ways. Women always date up.
Guys have bigger egos than girls.
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R. I. P. that attitude :PI don't get it either, lol.
friendzone? this still exists... lol. fools.
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