How can I punish my boyfriend for lying to me?

[Anonymous]

MY boyfriend does not stay with me these days lied to me the other day. And buzzed with him for doing so. Since he is not staying with me these days I can't find a punishment to give him... Can some one please suggest me one.

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I want to give him such a punishment that he gets some physical pain an i need to do it over the phone ( if he could send me videos, picks etc. of what he does) because these days he does not stay with or near me. I have kept spanking out of the option because I thought its not possible to spank one self. Is there any other option?

[serious]

I know for sure that women don't appreciate lies, they dislike dishonest men, women really value honesty, truthfulness, if in a relationship they want their partner to be truthful to them. I can understand you must feel angry, dissapointed with him.

It depends as to what he lied to you about and how serious was that situation? how big was that lie?

From the way you have written above, it seems like you found out the truth yourself, your boyfriend didn't confess the truth to you. Now depending on the lie you can punish him like this:

1. Don't speak to him for at least 15 days or a month.

2. If the lie was very big, a very serious lie then you should break up with him and never contact him again.

Before you punish him, you need to express yourself to him and tell him that you are very hurt and that you feel betrayed, after that go for the punishment

[poopedmypantsagain]

The only thing you can do is sit down with this guy and tell him you do not like a liar.. I see no point in you trying to get even or one up on this liar.. a relationship can not function at all if there are lies in it.

[Anonymous]

The morally right think to do would be to forgive him. But if don't care about that, then do the same thing to him when the opportunity arises.

[DianeDuffus]

You drop him that's his punishment. Grow up get real

[C_L_K]

Hold your horses you have to specify what kind of a lie it was, because it can range from "no I didn't fart" to "I didn't sleep with your sister last night"

[reptocarl]

Just dump him and never speak to him

[Goran_]

Cut his penis off, only reasonable thing to do.

[browny-sy]

no sex with him even he marries you *wink*

[GingerGuy]

Break up.

[Anonymous]

go practice BDSM on him. lol

[apple24]

U don't.

[Twolips]

Spanking😂

[Asker]

Either then spanking is there any thing els that he could do and send me via a camra.. I know its stupid but I'll tell u this we r newly follen in love around a month or so n till now I have not seen his ______**. neither as he shown me. Please suggest me something...

[Drega]

break up