Oaft! Sounds like your not the only one then. Other girls and women have been saying the same. Its happened to me loads of times, 3 guys. Not simultaneously though. The first guy worked in a supermarket that I shopped in. He stared at me, followed me around and stood next to me listening into my conversations. This went on for almost 3 years. It was really unnerving and made me so paranoid. I'm a lot more alert than I should be. But I couldn't say anything to him, because he would probably say "I'm just doing my work, what are you talking about?" The second guy, at one of my previous work places, displayed the same kind of antics but was really pervy with it. I found out from my best friend that he had a girlfriend. The third guy was another guy at the same supermarket, he didn't seem as creepy and he helped me too. I am not socially awkward, and neither are you. You cannot help who you attract. I've attracted some decent guys, the slimeballls and the kind that are self absorbed, as well as the socially awkward. Don't worry, who you attract does not always reflect on you.
No, I don't think so, but I was interested to see the responses as sometimes I feel this way too.
As someone pointed out, maybe it's because you're nicer to socially awkward guys than the average girl? I'm not sure though
I am socially awkward. And forever will be. But I don't date mean who are socially awkward.
So don't sweat it. It might just be your preference. Not necessarily saying you're one yourself :)
Best wishes sweetie
It doesn't mean that you are, it just means that they got the courage to speak to you, maybe you look inviting or something.
Also, what is so bad about socially awkward guys? Maybe you will be the person that completely helps them, if she just reject and reject them of course it wouldn't help them. Besides that most awkward guys become the best people to be with. It might not be amazing at first, but I think a lot of socially awkward people tend to become some of the best and most dedicated lovers
No its probably that you look approachable. If you look friendly and not intimidating then that will help guys with social awkwardness to approach you more easily.
Also if it was the case that these guys saw you interacting with these kind of people then it may have made them feel like they could too. But its more likely that you are just a nice friendly person and you have good vibe going.
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Its not always true.
Do you attract only socially awkward guys?
No it usually means that your an extrovert that they like. If you don't want them stalking you go over and say hi a few times. If they act creepy about it embarrass them in front of the whole class.
Well a socially confident woman would say a firm NO and handle it rather assertively.
No. socially awkward guys have major crushes on all types of girls. But mostly they have crushes on the popular and smart girls. That might be you!
No, it happens. Some guys just can't take a hint, it sucks doesn't it lol?
lol I attract girls who have been raped, attempted to commit suicide and who have depression. I haven't done any of those things, so it doesn't say anything about me LOL
If a woman attracts only serial killers, would that make her a serial killer also?
No it doesn't have anything to do with you. You probably just come off as approachable, friendly, attractive and likeable.
You might be really nice to socially awkward men. In which case, they become attracted to you, because they don't receive much female attention outside of their mothers or porn.
No that's odd lol why would that mean that you're weird?
Hard to say really. I would say no it doesn't have to mean your socially awkward.
No, rather the opposite i think, at least i used to have that
Are you socially awkward?
No? That doesn't make sense.
No, it means you're viewed as "safe"
birds of a feather, flock together
you know its not bad to be socially awkward.
Yupp
of course lol
yes baby
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