I'm 16 years old and get straight A's in high school. So I don't really want to hear the same line "focus on school" because I have no problems focusing on school at all. Anyways, back to what I was saying, I'm a little thicker and curvier than most girls at my age. And I don't wear revealing clothes or makeup. Everytime I am walking around to somewhere in my neighborhood, I have grown men usually in like their mid twenties to thirty staring at me whether when we pass by each other when walking or with them in a car. And with me liking the attention I stare right back at them if they are cute. I have even had a few tried talking to me but me being a bit scared because of the obvious age gap I denied any advances. But now I would be willing to give the older men my number if they asked because guys my age don't like me yet alone look at me in that way. According to them, I'm just a friend and will never be nothing more than that to them. Do you guys think it would be wrong to talk to an older guy even though there would be no relationship going on? For obvious reasons of him possibly going to jail. I mean I would tell him my age and everything beforehand so he's not blindsighted, and then he can decide whether or not to talk to me anymore. I've never had a boyfriend before and would be willing to broaden my dating range a bit if it means having the attention from the older guy. I don't know, what do y'all honestly think? Why would grown men be attracted to me? Do I look older than my age or what? I mean I've been told I look young by some and the exact opposite by others.
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Am I cute, pretty, attractive or neither? I'm just wondering because I feel like I'm neither and was just wondering if it's true or not. Please be honest and no rude comments.
I can tell you exactly why that happened to you and I don't even know you yet. Just cuz you have a very mature way about you you have a we call an old soul. Plus you don't look your age or at your age is very mature so you going to find younger guys to be boring what immature they can relate to you and the people can or older. You define your level of maturity by your life experience you must have had a lot of life experience at a young age because you're very Advanced for your age. And then of course because the way you look you're going to meet a lot of guys that are so fixated on getting between your legs so they're not going to take the time to get to know you so I guess that's your blessing in your curse I hope that answers your question and I hope this information helps you and your future decisions when it comes to dating
You need to focus on keeping those good grades attracted to you instead of trying to figure out how to turn grown men into child predators by trying to get them attracted to you. Sit down girl, please.
Tell me about it, I've had 40-50-ish yo business men hit on me before and it's awkward af.. even for me being 4 years older than you. I can't really tell if you look older than your age from that cyclops-selfie but I don't really think it's to do much with that..
I honestly think that you have beautiful dark eyes and hair, so yeah I can see why they look. Also, if you're more mature than others your age, you might get more attention from older people too
It's not wrong to talk with older people, it's just talking. Just don't let them get the wrong idea
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You look 18-20 ish and you have a pretty face, so there's that.
Lying about your age does actually help. But I really think you should be honest with them and you are attractive or not like dropdead gorgeous but you're definitely attractive I would talk to you if I saw you
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