When a guy says ''See you soon'' in a text message, what does it mean?

[Anonymous]

When guys say "see you soon" in a text message does it mean they don't want to see you anymore?

[palek]

All of us guys just had another meeting, and we decided that from now on "see you soon" means that we plan on seeing you again soon. Unless of course, whenever we talk to a given woman we unfailingly give a specific date and time at which to see her again, and then at some point decide we don't want to see her again, in which case we voted to allow saying "see you soon" as a way of efficiently ending the conversation without obligating ourselves further. This was all effective as of March 1, 2010. ; - )

[becca123]

Cracked me up.

[skeptic007]

lol lmao

[palek]

; - )

[Sasha0426]

LMAO 🤣 🤣🤣

[Urbanpunk22]

no, on the contrary it means they think they'll see you in the nearby future, it means they want to see you

[Asker]

Really? so many of my girlfriends think that if he says "see you soon" in a text that means he isn't into you because he didn't specify a day or time frame. Good to know! This guy I'm kind of seeing used "i'll see you soon" in a text message on tuesday night. We have been seeing each other for about 3 weeks now. You think he is still interested?

[Urbanpunk22]

Well fisst of all I'm only speaking for myself but from my understanding as a guy and from other guys I know, see you soon transaltes to "ill see you in the neraby future"

ill see you around meams "ill see you sometime but I have no freaking idea when that might be"

you also have to consider that he might not know the next time he'll see you exactly, I really don't think its something to worry about

well has he texted you after he said that

[Asker]

19. Things were going very well and he contacted me at least every other day. He went away last weds and said that he will see me when he gets back. We talked briefly while he was with fam. He came back sun or mon I bumped into him at a bar on tues. We chatted it was nice. He was with friends from out of town at the bar. So, I was talking to 2 guys and girl, then realized that he left the bar without saying bye! I texted him you left? he wrote back yea. I have friends in from out of town plus I have to wake up at 6:30. I'll see you soon. goodnight. Is this his way of telling me he is not interested anymore?

[Urbanpunk22]

No I don't think that's quite what it means, okay well he might have been for real that he had friends over and that he had to get up at 6:30 but I don't think he didn't say tell you bye was because he wasn't interested anymore I think its deeper than that

maybe he didn't say goodbye because he thought you were ignoring him or maybe he's just playing hard to get, personally I think you should just talk to him about it

[Asker]

Yeah he definitely had 2 friends in town because they were at the bar. Well I guess if he ever asks me out again I will get the chance to talk to him about it. I texted him yesterday asking how he was doing because my friend I was with at the bar also said I was ignoring him. He wrote back: Not bad! bout to watch the syracuse game! ....but hasn't asked me out or anything. I think that if we have been seeing each other for three weeks and he were really interested he would want to see me at least

[Asker]

Once a week..but who knows. thanks for your responses btw :)

[Urbanpunk22]

I'm not trying to stereotype anyone here, but often girls can ignore a guy and the girl not even know it, I'm sure its true with guys too

if you still like him and want him, just show interest, texting him saying hi won't do that, a friend will say how ya doing, but a girl who likes you will say, "hey, can we hangout soon, I miss you and I had a lot of fun last time" just stuff like that, maybe for some reason he thinks you're not really interested in him, so just try to get together with him

[Asker]

Really? even though I already texted him yesterday?

[Urbanpunk22]

You see, he may really be interested in you, when guys don't know an answer they make up their own and its probably worst case scenario(yes, we do that too), so maybe he think you're ignoring him and playing hard to get, a lot of stuff could be going through his head, just try to see what's going through his head, if you are worried just call him and talk to him about it, guys really don't mind if a girls straighforward, so just call him up and say "hey, it seemed we really clicked, what happened"

[Urbanpunk22]

Yes even though you texted him yesterday, you may think texting him a lot is annoying but really if a guy is annoyed about you texting him he's gonna make sure you know, guys love a girl texting them but actually call him not text him and talking to him, if you want this don't wait for it to fall in your lap be pro-active

and I forgot to say, no problem, I just want to help, message me anytime you got more questions

[xh123]

Well... A guy did't pick up my phone or text me back in the Christmas (yesterday) and this morning told me that he had a hangover and felt sick for the entire day. I was a bit angry with him and told him I was with somebody else in the Christmas. Just like 15 minutes later I called him and he ended our conversation by saying "see you soon, OK?". And he did not call or text me back until now.

[Classy12]

OK so I meet this guy online hung out with him last night the best night I had in a long time this morning he told me see you soon gave me a kiss good bye I text him when I got home an he didn't respond does that mean he is not into me or. did i text him to fast?

[Rowdy83]

I think it's best to not overanalyze things at this point - ya'll have only been dating for 3 weeks ya know? I wouldn't jump to conclusions just yet...

[BeMuse]

He's in the trees outside your window. He knows you're talking while sitting on the toilet because he saw you walk in there. When you leave the bathroom, he'll see you through your bedroom window again... Don't take it too serious. Either it means you guys will meet up in the near future or it's just a polite exit like keep in touch.

[asphaltrhymes]

I usually like saying Cya when I'm saying bye to someone, and I usually write see ya soon whenever I'm telling my friends in on the way, or I just write "I'm on the way/I'm on my way" or "I'm almost there" lol. 👀👀👀😁

[OldTimeFlicksChick]

I overthink this all the time but (assuming he isn’t a complete asswipe) he probably just doesn’t have a date to set yet or the time to set it so he will “see you soon”!

[Marshall33]

It just means there are no formal plans yet but he is open to making plans later on. Men are more direct when they don't want to see you anymore.

[Mugenschool]

So true

[Anonymous]

What if he always set a specific date before, but this time he is travelling for the next two weeks and so only said 'see you soon.' Could it just be that he is uncertain cos of the travel as to when exactly he would see you?

[kmhco]

You are reading way too into that. If a guy says "see you soon," it means just that. He hopes/plans on seeing you soon.

[Mightjustbe]

Is it the same when woman this see you real soon?

[John_Doesnt]

It means he's part of a secret alliance of gay queers who are conspiring...

You dumb girls always overanalyze every text guys send and then wonder why you're still single.

[Siri137]

It means he'll see you soon. What else could it possibly mean? Don't overthink things.

[ArrowheadSW]

It means that they are leaving it open to seeing you again.

[RingOfFire]

"When guys say "see you soon" in a text message does it mean they don't want to see you anymore?"

Oh man they got us figured out! Now what? 😯

[Dargil]

Exactly what it says. An intent to be with you soon.

[Bobbysworld]

According to the unilateral men's association of the world. See you soon has the same meaning as see you later. Which means they are not with you at the moment but they will be soon.

[mike5150]

Means they want to see you again but not really anything planned

[stargazeraug1989]

... it means exactly what it says: He wants to see you again in the near future. What exactly are you confused about?

[TheSpaceGnome]

I recommend using a dictionary, it can be quite helpful for things like this.

[Shy_Steve]

No, It just means he wants to see you in person soon.

[Nikki1989]

Nothing if it is a text message.

[Jamie05rhs]

Um, no. I'm pretty sure that means the opposite!

[Anonymous]

The fuck do you think it means?

[Jmmmfi4]

I guess it means I'll see you soon