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Is it normal for a guy to ask nude pics from his girlfriend?

I have a boyfriend... we are having our relationship for almost a year... so when we were talking we are sending each other pics of what we are doing and all... so one day he asked nudes from me and i gave it to him... without my face in it... and he says he needs to see my face in the photo.. im really afraid because i dont want to end up on internet... its not that i dont trust him but its that a mistake can happen in a blink of an eye... and if i try to explain him this he says that "i dont want them anymore and gets angry with me and also he asks me "from whom else should i ask nudes from.. u are my girlfriend..."i love him so much and im so scared of loosing him... he is like that.. he gets angry for almost everything.. he is having a bad temper and his friends are the worst... but at the same time he cares a lot for me... he loves me a lot.. i feel it... do u all think that his behavior is normal? is it normal for a guy to ask nudes? im not uncomfortable of giving him them... im just scared if they slips and goes off hand...😔
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It is relatively normal for a guy to ask his girlfriend for nudes; we're visual creatures, and we like being able to see our girlfriend naked, whenever we want.

    However, it is NOT normal for him to get angry about your refusal. You explained your reasoning; reasoning that a rational person would agree is valid, and warranted. Even if it wasn't; you obviously don't feel comfortable showing your face, and he should accept that.

    He asked, you said no. The conversation should have ended right there, but he's being selfish, and disrespecting you, and your wishes. That's incredibly rude, on his part.

    You're making the right decision, because his response tells me that he couldn't be trusted to have your best interests at heart, if he were in possession of those types of photos.

    I hate to say it, but I think you need a new boyfriend. One that respects you, more than this one does.

    • I have to agree with you but the thing is i love this guy so much.. though he is rude at times i dont care them at all because sometimes i do wrong too.. he is the guy and im showing respect to him.. in my opinion i think its normal for him to scold me for what i did wrong.. and i agree with ur comment but i love him and i can't loose him.. thats my problem...😔

    • I understand that, to a point, and I'm certainly not trying to tell you how to live your life, or make your decision for you, of course. It worries me when you say you're "showing respect to him," though. I don't know the whole story behind your relationship, but it does not sound like he respects you, in return. That's not good, because you deserve to be respected, too. Just because he is "the guy" does not automatically make him more important than you, or your feelings. Relationships are a two way street; there should be mutual respect; it shouldn't all be coming from you.

    • Thank you so much for making me understand these... but i still cannot give him up... can you give me some advice? i really love him and dont wanna loose him... i cannot talk these with mom so these kind of comments are really helpful

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  • I don't ever ask for or send nudes over the internet, email or chats!!
    When I am with a woman that I really love, I ask if she would pose for some 'old-fashioned' film, monochrome pictures (black and white). It's something PERSONAL, between us, and if she likes the idea, we go somewhere, and I make the shots, and we develop them, old-fashioned, in the dark room, with the chemicals, and paper, and all the Old ART!!
    The three that have agreed were really nervous, at first, especially doing nudes, but in secluded places, safe.
    When we started to develop the film, then print, from the negatives, every one of them were so amazed, at how good they looked as the images developed in the water baths!!!

Most Helpful Girls

  • No it is not normal, and I suggest that you don't do it! This is not love. He just wants your pics to show to his friends and to masturbate with. He does not love you. Anything that you send through your phone is monitored and anybody can get them through illegal means anyway. Any and everything is transferable by data. And if you cannot trust him with that, that is why you need to break up with him. He is using you for sex. That's all he wants from you. I don't trust anybody who asks for that. Don't. You'll regret it. If he gets a bad temper, that is a sign for you to leave. Do not stay! I sense that he is bad news, and you need to stop this now, because he is taking advantage of you.

    • I love him.. i really do so much.. thats my problem... i want him.. tell me something to do.. he already have many nudes of mine... i can't loose him

    • If you feel that you have to lose your dignity on an account of this, this is not love. This is emotional, mental and psychological abuse. Loves does NOT make you do something you don't want to do. You only want to do this, because you think and feel this will make it better, or to keep him. He is not worth it. He is not worth keeping. You need to break this off. This is what it is, abuse. And any therapist or psychologist in their right mind would tell you that it is.

  • Yes, it's normal for a guy to ask his girlfriend for nudes.
    However, it's not normal for him go get angry at you for not feeling comfortable sending nudes for fear of it ending up all over the Internet. You have a very valid concern and i feel he should be more understanding of it if he truly loves and cares about you.

    • Do u think i should break up with him? i really love him so much and i am scared of loosing him

    • What's more important is what YOU think and feel. If his bad temper is a problem to you/hurts/bothers you, then you should rethink your relationship. Think: is this something you can live/deal with in the long run?

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  • DONot SEND Nude pics to him. You will regret why you did so. He is not the right guy for you.

  • yes so he can show his friends

  • Do you even trust him? It is perfectly normal to send nudes to your SO, even with face. If you can't give them out of fear of him sharing then why are you even with him.

  • It's *common* for guys to do, but not a good idea for you. Just say no.

  • I love kinky women who love sending nudes but I understand why this is a big deal for many women. Too easy to abuse those images. One nude image can ruin a person's career. Revenge porn is a real thing.
    Once you send a nude picture/let others film you naked it is beyond your control. They can keep it, copy it, post it anywhere. The perfect basis for blackmail too. If your career goes high you can rest assured those photos from years back will come up eventually.
    Remember: love doesn't last forever, nudes online do.
    Make a decision accordingly.

  • I personally think he is a loser. Let him go

  • i mean, you are his girlfriend

  • Yeah i guess so.

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