When a guy says it's over, is it really over?
Ive dated this guy for 3 years, he's amazing, and I'm head over heels. However, in those 3 years we broke up many times because of promises he... Show More
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i don't blame you for being torn on what to think.. it seems that on one end you want to follow you instinct and hope that determination and persistence leads you back to where you once stood.. on the other hand you're fighting what seems more and more like reality of him showing more signs of not coming back..
however from the facts here, it seems he really means it.. the reality is if it didn't work out all those times, it's probably not going to work out at all.. I don't know the details of everything you and him shared in those years but according to him, it doesn't seem to be anything special enough to keep; maybe enough to remember and nothing more.. take a few deep breaths, calm yourself for a minute.. and really, take a very broad look at everything that happened.. so he was special, but can you find someone better? remember everyone you've met.. everything u've heard about relationships.. remember that there is no rule to life, life is random.. and things more than likely happen for a reason..
also, by you pleading him to come back, you're lowering ur value to him as a person.. it's kind of tricky.. but it's kind of like the chinese finger trap; although hard to resist but the more you plea, the less likely he might come back to you.. if you want, compose yourself as much as you can, tell him honestly everything you feel, and be brief about it.. and let him go.. just as long as you say things that will help you move on..
i hope this helps..
What Guys Said 3
I think he's acting like a jerk bcoz maybe some stupid ideas has been put into him by some other jerks!Dont worry accept him,love is acceptance,be friends with him.
Hang on to him and make him believe its really changed.
It depends on you though how much you can hold on,but give him ur love fully,accept him in every way, love him like hell,make him feel that no1 can love him so much and care for him to such an extent.
but yeah if after a long loving trail he still acts like this then you too move on,but do try with ur full heart and soul!
Best of luck,i really pray you both get back 2gether :)
i understand how much it hurts when ur love leaves you and you shout out in loneliness plz come back but that shout never reaches to that person.
If he stops contacting you and is seeing other people he has decided to move on and its over, he might try to hook up with you for sex, but avoid comitment and keep seeing other people
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