There is tons of nudity online for guys to easily get so why do they repeatedly ask girls they know for nude pictures?
Why do guys want nudes so bad?
No definitive answer can be given since this depends on the guy and what kind of person he is as the major factor, and other minor factors such as the nature or stage of his relationship aith the girl.
Having said this, I will share some examples.
1 - A guy can ask for nudes for the ego boost that he will get from it. "She posed naked for ME"
2 - A guy can ask for nudes so that he will run to his buddies and share and brag. "Look at me, I got game I am awesome"
3 - A guy can ask for nudes to feel somehow closer and more intimate with the girl. Nudes are very personal, and when the guy gets one he will feel as if he leveled up on the intimacy levels with the girl since she shared such a personal pic with him.
4 - A guy can ask for nudes because he is very skeptical and wants to see if the girl is "real"
5 - A guy can ask for nudes because he wants to see if the girl is as hot when she is nude as when she is clothed. Some men rely on techniques such as taking the girl to the beach, while others want to see more detail that only nudes can provide. "Sure she is hot, but what if she has disgusting nipples"
6 - A guy can ask for nudes to enjoy a better masturbation session using them. He gets more pleasure than masturbating over a total stranger with 0 connection with him.
7 - A guy can ask for nudes just out of playful fun and nothing more.
8 - A guy can ask for nudes as his primitive/shallow way of testing the girl to see if she is uptight or not.
Etc etc...
There are many more reasons or even combination of reasons, all depending mainly on the guy and on other factors.
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I've never been the type to ask for these (never did) but I can see the appeal.
It *personifies* the image. It makes her more than just some naked body or some girl doing it to get paid. She's the real deal, a person with emotions and a personality who shared this intimate side of herself specifically with you.
It's a little closer to reality while porn is pure fantasy.
As a married guy, I'd somewhat consider it cheating if I talked a lot to a girl and asked her for nudes. I don't consider it with pornography since that's just pure fantasy, there's no emotional investment, and the girls in those cases are absolutely meaningless to me: just some tits and ass to get the demons out of my system and let me go on with the day.
Winning.
They feel like they've "conquered" the chick by getting her to do something "naughty" than maybe other guys couldn't.
As you grow, you'll find that a sense of winning drives so much male behavior - more than even sex.
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Even though there are a lot of nudes online, there aren't those of you (well, maybe). So he wants to see it, it'll be new to him. To see you specifically naked.
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Exactly. Because they know them. It's much more of a turn on to see someome you know naked than some random chick on the Internet.
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That's the thing - there's so much of it that getting it takes no effort. They want to exert effort and they want it to pay off. I used to think like you, that there's no point since there's porn everywhere.
Until I got my first nudes. Now I see the whole process as fun, even if I don't get any in the end, I will have at least had fun and teased a girl - which in and of itself makes me feel better for the rest of the day. And hopefully, the same goes for her (what girl doesn't like genuine compliments?)
by the way, feel free to send em xD :D - 344 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
It's not about the nudes itself but the satisfaction of getting something from either a random stranger or someone you know. At the end of the day, it's all about the ego and knowing what kind of appeal you have with the opposite gender and what they are willing to do and give to you
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I just like to look at them while I masturbate tbh. I don't know why but it kind of feels better to me when a girl sends me nudes than when I look at some random girl on the internet. I always try to be respectful though and I never ask for nudes until I get to know a girl and we start talking about sexual things
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Well it's obviously better from people you know and/or your girlfriend than online random people. Guys are visual and we see beautiful women daily (in the media, in person etc). Most guys are also horny daily. But, having said that I would never ask a woman to send me them (if she did willingly on her own that's her decision). So basically if girls are willing to, most guys will gladly take a look. And some guys are bold enough to actually ask women to.
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Not to suggest that I ever did it or will ever do it, and not suggesting that I support this behavior; I think guys are much more visual than girls. I think these guys get a big satisfaction that someone that they know, actually strippes for them. They probably get a personal feeling about it. If they see web nudity, that is just nothing personal.
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It's more arousing when its a girl you know, she's doing it for YOU unlike someone who has 1m+ views on pornhub.
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Random bitch on the internet is a random bitch on the internet. If it's a girl I'm dating is really hot. I've never really asked for them first though haha, just a nice surprise!
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Kinda of an ego boost if you can get a girl to sned you nudes on her own accord vs just looking at ones that are readily available for everyone online.
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Auuuum cause nude exchange is more hot when your talking with them. I dunno. Maybe they are sexually attracted to girl he wants nudes from.
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I could give two fucks about nudes. I prefer to see her nude in the flesh.
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so they can show their friends! They probably know you, so...
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because we want to admire a particular girl's body whenever we want to.
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True. I would rather you just be naked in front of me instead of looking at your snaps.
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Because it makes them feel live they've gotten something out of you and they're accomplished. Basically because they're egotistical pigs
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Cause you wouldn't get nude on demand if we were with you in that moment
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So they can masturbate over you tbh to me it doesn't make sense i would rather see the girls body in person instead maybe there shy
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Because guys are disgusting pigs. Could you imagine if we asked guys for nudes? They would send us nudes in a heartbeat lol.
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they find her attractive and think they can ask her
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That's cheap thinking.
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It's hotter when you know them
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