I asked this guy if he liked me and we've hung out 3 times, the first time was the first time we've ever met. He told me he wasn't sure yet because he barely knows me and not to rush a relationship when we don't really know each other. Is this him trying to reject me?
How long does it take for a guy to know if he likes you?
What Guys Said 1
It all depends on the guy for how long it takes for them to know you. I know it can sometimes take me a while to get to know a girl but there has been an instance where I just felt something about a girl. She seemed to have the right personality, lots of things in common, and great conversations.
If the guy is mature, he will not just instantly know. It'll take a few dates to know if he is really interested.
I'd say he isn't rejecting you. I know I have felt like at different points that if I asked a girl out at a certain point that I would feel rushed.
Good luck :)
What Girls Said 1
I had the same thing happen to me, and finally I just gave up on him, because it didn't seem like he was making any decision any time soon... basically he was a player.
Now its possible that he is really not sure about rushing into another relationship, but be carefull an don't set your heart on him just yet...