Attraction isn't a choice. Our hormones are genetically drawn towards women with birth giving hips and baby feeding boobs.
And thin women tend to imply health, which is hot. Where as overly fat women tend to imply lack of health, and lack of self control. This is all superficial of course.
Curves are not about being fat... a woman with a small waist but big boobs and ass implies health and baby making skills. So automatically she's more attractive than just a skinny girl, who might just be sickly.
But of course there are so many different types of men that it's easy to find a group that are into super skinny or supper fat, or every shape in the middle.
When in doubt focus on your own physical health and mental well being... that will be what's MOST attractive about you anyways.
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Because girls learn to believe that LOSING WEIGHT == GAINING ATTRACTIVENESS
Obviously this is not true, people are most attractive in their natural weight.
There's a documentary about this called "Killing Us Softly 4"
You can be skinny and curvy. But it's biological that a lot of men likes curves, it's basic survival instinct. Maybe you have heard the expression "birthing hips" which essentially sums it up pretty well; curves are an expression of fertility and health, and it's a basic instinct for men to be turned on by a woman fit to bear a child and being able to pass on his genes.
It's true even for men who doesn't want children. That doesn't mean lean, skinny and athletic women aren't a turn on for men though, not at all.
They don't want skinny girls as in they look like skeletons are almost like them.
Curvy is not being chubby. Curvy is when you have medium/large boobs and wider hips. Which I think the reason men like that more. In nature that would mean the chick looks more physically mature. If I worded that correctly.
Fuck what those guys want. It all depends on how you want to look.
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well i dont know where your from, but i've always heard that curves are way better than being skinny and the self conscious girls are the ones that are naturally really skinny. curves are attractive because they're feminine and sex feels better. but don't get things confused, curvy doesn't mean overweight. it means having a curvy shape. a skinny girl can be considered curvy. but its better when a girl also has some weight in the right places (boobs, hips, ass, thighs) and is at a healthy weight.
i like what i like,
i have liked chubby girls, skinny girls, tall girls, short girls,
and everything in between
people worry so much about what other people desire them to be, i dont know who they are themselves, they dont go after their own desires.Well, to put it simple curvy is like an hourglass shape people seem to group it in the girls that are a bit chunky which is a different thing and the answer is simply cause it's sexually arousing I guess? Probably some science stuff that comes into play
As many people have said before, what women like for themselves is not necessarily what men look for in women. There was a My Take about cosmetics that said to men, "do you really think we do it for you?"
The thinness thing is the same thing. Many men like curves. Many women like to be thin.i wish i was curvy. im like 112 lb i mean i have an hourglass figure and all but nothing like most bigger girls, you always want what you can't have, am i right?
I ask everyone who is sorry, especially the girls..
Every girl and every person is a unique being that will never be repeated in the world...
But I would like to say my humble personal opinion...
The jerky girl is more feminine, as well as having larger-sized charms oftenYou can be thin and curvy. Curvy is not a size, it's a shape. And different guys have different preferences. Also, not every girl wants to be skinny. There are plenty of women that are thicker and bigger that are perfectly ok with their weight.
Curvy is thrown around way to much. A 500lbs woman will call herself curvy, a lady with a big ole ass calls herself curvy, the lady that's as big around as she is tall calls herself curvy. To me curvy is am hourglass with ample tits and ass. So to summarize, most men don't like the fat woman's definition of curvy.
I defo have friend who prefer, "the larger lady", but for me nooooooooo, slim to average build, no more. Cute is better than Curvy!
I'm skinny and curvy. curvy is about shape, not being overweight and ROUND. too many people confuse what it actually means.
Because they simply look the sexiest it is a fallacy that men prefer thing girls they do not we prefer curvy girls
She's clearly an attractive young gal
Curvy like that is nice yes, wait until your 27 maybe lol those hips are prolly guna blow up hahahMaybe they like to have something to hold to lol everyone has a different taste in women..
I actually like chubby women the most. It's hard to explain because I can't control it. Something about love handles, a round face, etc just drives me crazy.
Curvy as in chubby? Or curvy as in girls with wide hips, great ass and nice boobs? I'm asking because if it's the later why would you need to ask? xD chubby girls are hella cuddly tho
Curvy is hot... curves on a women is hot. Having stuff to grab on to is hot.
If that's you, then holy shit you are hot. And I like some curves because they are really appealing and they are sexy
All women have curves don't want a fat woman. If she's over 9 she's fat and too far out of my range. 3 to a 7 is ideal
Provide more stats..
What is your height and weight.
You keep boasting about your "curves"... Then post some measurements.
42-?-?
Isn't looking good to be honest.Why not? I mean, guys like girls. Doesn't matter the body type.
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