Guys, would you feel gay and gross if your girlfriend kisses you right after a blow job? Girls, how would you feel about this?

[Anonymous]

I personally wouldn't be okay with such behaviour at all.. what am I supposed to do.. wash my mouth with holy water or something? 😒 I'd be more then fine to kiss a guy after he goes down on me.. that doesn't make me a lesbian.. why does the same thing makes a guy gay? And if it's "gross" then why do they expect the girl to put that "gross" thing in her mouth.. this is just disrespectful and prudish.. kind of a deal breaker for me if I have to go wash my mouth with bleach in order to kiss him.. 😑😑

[ThisDudeHere]

Yes, yes I would.
And I expect a girl to put it in her mouth the same way she can expect me to go down on her - because we are not biologically the same and her/ me putting it in/around our mouths is not the same for both. A girl could easily be disgusted at her own bodily fluids but could still easily expect me to go down on her and taste them myself. The same way I would want a blowjob but would not want to taste it myself. It is not hypocritical because, again, we are a gender dimorphic species.

If I were a guy guy and I didn't want to give my boyfriend a bj while I expected one from him, THEN it would be selfish - because both of us are the same.

[LadyTerror]

"It is not hypocritical because, again, we are a gender dimorphic species." Those two aren't related in any way. Cum isn't even made for the mouth in the first place. So terrible argument.

[ThisDudeHere]

@LadyTerror @LadyTerror No it isn't. The point of my argument is that it is not hypocritical to expect your partner to taste your bodily fluids when you yourself wouldn't want to. I'd be totally down to eating a woman out and tasting her, but would absolutely never want to taste anything from myself.

[LadyTerror]

And you just said the same thing all over again without giving any reason for it. And how is it not hypocritical to expect someone to do something you can't?

[ThisDudeHere]

@LadyTerror the reason was already given, in case you can't read. We don't have the same bodies - we don't even have the same kind of bodily fluids - I would gladly taste a woman but would NEVER want to taste myself. Our two bodies are different - and I consider stuff from myself gross but anything from her to be perfectly ok.

[LadyTerror]

And I already proved you wrong since the fact that our bodies are different has absolutely no correlation to this. The fact that you expect her do something that you find your own fluids gross isn't related to gender differences in any way. Stop trying to use that pathetic excuse.

[ThisDudeHere]

"And I already proved you wrong" -How? "since the fact that our bodies are different has absolutely no correlation to this" -That is an opinion, not a fact. It proves or disproves nothing. My point still stands - a woman can easily expect me to go down on her but then not taste herself from my mouth, and the same way I can expect her to give me a blowjob but then not have to taste myself from her mouth. @LadyTerror

[LadyTerror]

"That is an opinion, not a fact." Actually no. It's not. I suggest you go look up what an opinion actually is. "My point still stands - a woman can easily expect me to go down on her but then not taste herself from my mouth, and the same way I can expect her to give me a blowjob but then not have to taste myself from her mouth." And now you're going completely off topic since I never disagreed with that anywhere. Looks like you need to read my reply all over again.

[ThisDudeHere]

@LadyTerror -I said I don't want to taste my own bodily fluids but can expect a woman to do it, much like she can expect the reverse, and I said that it is not hypocritical, because we are not the same, and I'm uncomfortable with myself. -You said it is hypocritical because us being biologically different does not change anything - but you failed to provide a specific reason on how it doesn't change anything.

[LadyTerror]

Actually, when someone actually says that there's a relation, they're the ones who are supposed to show how. Or here's an example. -"The height of a person has absolutely no correlation to how much they like chocolate." -"That's an opinion. Not a fact." That's pretty much how you sound right now. Also, who would you expect a reason from here? The person trying to show a connection between them or the person saying that they are not related?

[ThisDudeHere]

@LadyTerror this entire argument revolves not around objective scientific fact - but personal preference and discomfort. 1) I find my own bodily fluids disgusting and do not want to taste them - easy enough to understand. 2) I do NOT find the bodily fluids of a woman disgusting and would totally not mind getting taste them during sex - easy enough to understand. 3) With that in mind - I do not think it hypocritical to not want to do it myself while expecting someone to do it to me. Much the same way I would never want to operate on myself but would fully expect the doctors to do it for me. I have the right to be uncomfortable with something about myself while other people don't have to have the same discomfort.

[ThisDudeHere]

I don't see what you don't get here - I am uncomfortable with doing something with/to myself but that does not mean that I am uncomfortable with others doing it with/ to me.

[LadyTerror]

That's not what I'm saying. You have every right to be grossed out by your own fluids, but so does she. It's not hypocritical of you to WANT her to taste your fluids but it is when you EXPECT it. If you don't want to do it, she doesn't have to either unless she wants to.

[ThisDudeHere]

"You have every right to be grossed out by your own fluids" -Of course. "but so does she" -But of course. If she was grossed out by HER OWN bodily fluids, that would stop me from going down on her. I would just take not of her discomfort and not kiss her right after. No problems with that. "It's not hypocritical of you to WANT her to taste your fluids" -I don't necessarily WANT her to do it. The only thing I'm saying is that me not wanting to taste myself doesn't have to mean she never gives me blowjobs. Much the same way if she didn't want to taste HERSELF, that wouldn't mean I would never go down on her. I would still do it. Gladly even. @LadyTerror

[ThisDudeHere]

"If you don't want to do it, she doesn't have to either unless she wants to." -I don't expect her to taste them - I "expect" (for lack of a better word - I mean sex is a given in a relationship, so the word 'expect' can kind of be used here) to simply give me a bj whenever the situation calls for it. The same way she can 'expect' me to go down on her, whenever the situation calls for it. But that doesn't NECESSARILY mean we HAVE to then kiss. If she doesn't want to give me blowjobs, then I won't want to go down on her, and from then on the relationship will probably fall apart anyway. Personally, I don't see how if I have a discomfort with myself, that she should have it either. If she has a discomfort with her own feminine fluids - that does not automatically mean I have it too. She may want to NEVER in her life taste herself - but I would still gladly do it TO HER anyway. @LadyTerror

[LadyTerror]

Good. So we pretty much agree on the same thing, except I still don't see how this has anything to do with gender. You could just say "I find my own fluids gross" and leave it at that.

[ThisDudeHere]

@LadyTerror perhaps you're right and I should have clarified that instead.

[Rosemary805]

Well I have no problem tasting my pussy. I think it's quite nice. I especially like when a guy eats me out then kisses me after. And if has a mustache even better cuz it holds my essence in his facial hair and I love that smell and taste when we kiss.

[ThisDudeHere]

@Rosemary805 well good for you but personally that is exactly I don't see myself liking any time son.

[DodgersGM]

This is like the least gay thing ever.

Bottom line: I'm gonna kiss my girl whenever the desire strikes. I don't care what we're in the middle of doing.

[Asker]

You're so cool. 😛

[DodgersGM]

I'm just older and comfortable with myself. But I'll take it, thanks. lol

[skaikrasha]

It's gross? Well I hope you like vomit on your dick, because if your dick is so disgusting that you can't handle anything that's been near it touching your lips, it's inevitable that the girl will throw up on it.

It's gay? Poor baby, uncomfortable with your sexuality. Also wouldn't hurt picking up the dictionary and looking up the definition of "gay".

Yeah, those dudes who think that way can stay away from me, boys with disgusting dicks and/or dumb enough to not know the real definition of "gay" are not my type.

[Asker]

Exactly

[skaikrasha]

Thanks for the MHO 👌🏼

[Yumix]

This. It's fucking stupid. (why have I not seen this question?)

[Asker]

@Yumix I invited you

[Yumix]

nope, I checked it... no invite 😭

[Asker]

@Yumix I did.. there must be some glitch

[Yumix]

wouldn't be surprised lol... just one bug of many.

[Asker]

@Yumix yeah.. many times have a opened a question because I see it in the feed but found replies to my opinions but never got notifications for them

[Clueless-romantic9]

I had an ex that was against me kissing after giving him a BJ and it would really bother me because I just pleasured him and now I wanted a kiss.. I didn't think It was too much to ask. He used to kiss me after eating me out DOUBLE STANDARD much!!
My new man thought I was insane when I asked permission to kiss him after a blow job he is totally cool with it as long as I don't have cum in my mouth anymore lol 😛

[Asker]

Glad you found someone who's more fun 😛

[SarahsSummer]

That's lame if you are dealing with guys like that. My boyfriend kisses me before, during and after bj. neither one of us are thinking "gay" we are just enjoying each other.

[Asker]

I'm not dealing with any guy atm.. lol.. it's cool that you've got yourself a keeper 😛

[SarahsSummer]

I think guys that have issues with that have severe insecurity issues and possibly aren't ready for sex in general. I mean, bodily fluids get exchanged, enjoy it or don't have sex.

[PrettyKitty31]

I've never had a guy be grossed out to kiss me after I've blown him. Hell, after he cums in me I sometimes make him clean it up. Never heard any complaints.

[biguyct]

yummy :P

[Smmyskittles]

As long as she cleans it off her mouth and/or swallows it; shouldn't be an issue.

Guys just don't want a girl to snowball them. - Some girls have tried or probably done it to most guys. <- That is what they find "gay".

Eh. To each their own.

[Hauler72]

She tastes her pussy after cumming on my tongue... and shows me she likes it. Ill return that. If we take stuff like that and make it gross it kills sex.

[nala_rawr]

if he doesn't eant me to, I respect that... but I WANT to kiss him...
after he tastes like my pussy I LOVE to kiss him, but I think it's a little different for females...

[PhilX]

good for us :)

[MadeInAmerica]

No that doesn't bother me.

[Sara413]

We kiss after blow jobs and after he goes down on me. It's not gross.. it's sexy!

[Asker]

Oh yeah 😉😛

[madhatters4]

i wouldn't feel gay. my wife doesn't take ejac in her mouth so i don't really have any qualms with kissing her after a bj. even if she did as long as she swallowed i guess i'd be ok with it.

[kittycat119]

I've actually never cared if my guy liked it or not. I would always swallow to kiss him. If he tried moving I'm sure I would have been that idiot and ran after him saying girl me your lips lol or be like kiss me or something stupid. Though luckily my guy doesn't have any problems with it, though ik his friends all thibk it's gross and would probably call him gay for it. But I guess that's why they can't get a bj or a girlfriend

[Mustachekitteh]

I don't think that's gay and most dudes probably won't mind it.

[Rosemary805]

I LIKE when a guy kisses me after eating my pussy, I dont see how that makes me gay. and it wouldn't make a guy gay either

[biguyct]

exactly! :P

[mikemx55]

It's a bit strange, but at the same time, it's one of my fantasies xD

[Asker]

Nice! 😁😁

[NoKiLz]

Welp, i've never even kissed a girl. But I want to pleasure her all i can with everything i have. So no. i don't give a single dang if she kisses me afterwards. If she just loves it.

[AleDeEurope]

No, I don't mind it at all, unless she still has all the cum in her mouth.
I kinda like to kiss her after oral (either by me or her), not because I like how I taste (I don't even notice any difference), but because I find it quite hot.

[Urius]

I dont know why but I just don't feel comfortable with it somehow. I can clearly understand your point thats why I always say before she goes down that there will be no kissing afterwards and if she doesn't agree with that she doesn't need to go down though.

[TadCurious]

I don't have a problem with doing that. There's nothing gay about it.

[Sexiestjohnson]

I had a girlfriend who gave me a blow job and afterwards said "you must think I have done this with a billion guys". I don't think that thought even crossed my mind until she said it. When she said it, I noted it. So one day after I went down on her and she gave me a BJ, she took my cum in her mouth. I knew that was my moment to let her know I love her genuinely. So right then when she had my cum in her mouth, or a part of it... I kissed her intimately... She didn't want to french kiss me but I found a way to her tongue. And that was the first time I tasted cum. My cum!

And it didn't make me feel gay. It made me happy to know I made her happy.

[Bandit74]

It's not gay but I don't really want to have the taste of my cum in my mouth.

[Monva]

Wouldn’t blow him again if he refused to kiss me right after.

[meatballs21]

Doesn't bother me at all. I don't want to snowball, but I will kiss her.

[LadyTerror]

I feel the same as you. In what world is a guy kissing a girl gay?

[Phoenix98]

I'd be perfectly fine with it I mean it's my dick right? it's literally an extension of my body lol. Now if I had just came then I then I wouldn't want to I don't want a mouthful of my own cum in my mouth that's going a bit to far.

[Asker]

I'm not talking about a mouthful of cum lol. It's just kissing right after it. She might've already swallowed or you might've not come yet... it's just the thing that guys say "I don't want to taste my own dick"

[Phoenix98]

I'm just covering all bases. But yeah anyway I agree with ya it's stupid and there's no reason not to do it.