I find my boyfriend cute (obviously) but he always just goes "No" whenever I tell him and says that I am (cute).
I've asked him before why he always denies when I say it and he once told me it was because he wasn't stuck up, like he didn't love himself. I explained to him it wasn't stuck up to accept a compliment and say "Thanks" but still, he always denies he's cute whenever I say.
It's not like I'm the only one that thinks he's cute though - I showed a pic of him to my friends once and one of my friends who is lesbian straight up went "Ooh he's cute.. If I wasn't gay" I of course responded with "Mine!" but point is, I'm not just making up in my head he's cute or saying it to make him feel better, he actually is cute.
I would say, from the hot guys that I know, they know they are attractive. Girls all want their attention and they don't seem to have a problem getting girls. However, I have guy friends who I find really attractive and they don't seem to know they are really attractive cause they apparently weren't always attractive.
Most probably do but there are guys and girls who may be attractive but they don't feel like they are. Maybe they don't have high self esteem and they have insecurities about their physical appearances. Sometimes no matter how many compliments you get on your looks, you just don't believe them.
Although some may get into denial about it due to self esteem issues stemming from personal lies or whatever, I'd say that the vast majority of "cute" guys know how they look. Compliments throughout life, opposite gender sexual attraction, etc. reaffirm it and let them know where they stand.
That being said, some guys also overinflate their physical appearance of themselves. I mean, naturally no one wants to think of themselves as ugly or whatever, but one may overcompensate and become arrogant.
A guy can believe himself to be atttactive, but he cannot know who else does unless they tell him or he reads their cues.
Because beauty/attractiveness is subjective, a person cannot simply be attractive, but those around the person can have the opinion that the person is attractive.
The reason it sometimes seems as though attractiveness is so black and white is because most people are attracted to the same things.
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not until you're told no , i had no clue where i stand in the dating world if its wasn't for the dozens of girls who have told me iam good looking, sure i get lots of looks and stares from pretty hot girls but its not like telling you that they think you're quite hot.
Yes we know. Women treat us differently. It's not like they are all over us. It's just little things. Like a girl who is having a bad day if I speak she might still give me a small smile and hi back but an average looking likely won't get a response at all.
When you have a lot of women stare at you and flirt with you on a regular basis you get the idea. Not only do you get the idea, your friends get the idea and they come up with names for you... Other guys tend to get jealous of you often enough... It's pretty obvious that you are attractive based on how more women gravitate toward you than the other guys around you.
Yes. Growing up i was confused, because my family would tell me im ugly and things like that, but when i went to school all the girls loved me. It wasn't until middle school that i realized i was very attractive.
Yeah, you notice when girls treat you a lot better than every other guy around, guys get jealous of you and start hating, your friends tease you about being a chick magnet, etc.
I would say no because most of the time cute guys are usually shy so they wouldn't think of themselves like that.
Of course they do... that's why they become douchebags and use women - because they can and they will get another one if they are not into you anymore.
Cute guys obviously know that they're so incredibly attractive for the same reason that girls do. Both cute guys and girls know that they are attractive because they are constantly gazing in mirrors at themselves comparing themselves to other cute guys and girls.
Same as women do. The only thing that matters is if the person acts like they know it. That ruins things.
Yes, in fact even an astonishing number or unattractive guys know they're attractive - to themselves at least.
It really depends on the person! Some people are aware they're cute, others aren't, for whatever reason.
Maybe but not necessarily. Not everyone is "cute" (seriously? they are not puppies) to everybody, especially when most of the feedback they get is the opposite.
Lol, I have a feeling you're a mixed or Asian girl.
All the cute guys know they are 6+, but it hard to know where do you stand from 6-10 ?
I've been told I'm attractive. I just go "thank you" and go about my business. As @shy_girl96 has hinted, I'm on the shy side as well (getting over this).
Personally I found neither of the guys in your pics cute, but yea I think cute guys know that they're cute.
Generally men don't give a shit if they're attractive or not to begin with.
I'd say most faggot cuties know they're attractive. But straight cuties always think theyre ugly
Sometimes yes sometimes no.
I would consider my brother attractive but he has no confidence.
Yes they know that's why they typically act like smug assholes.
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