I know it's not much to go on, but me and this guy have been friends for a while and I think we're both pretty shy. So anyway I feel like he's interested sometimes and other times I'm not so sure. It seems like he is though and others agree he is. As for me I feel like sometimes I'm being obvious... Show More
Is he interested and just shy, or is he just a friend who was busy?
What Guys Said
In all likelihood, he just had something else to do that day and is too shy to try to give you anything to work with. Try directly asking for his number or something of the sort, and then texting him when you'd like to hang out. There are a lot of guys like this, believe it or not. It doesn't mean we aren't interested, but so afraid of rejection that we're scared to try to instigate anything.
What Girls Said
gee, sorry you haven't received any answers...but from what I gather, heard, read, and experienced...if a guy is interested and he has the "means" to feel confident enough to ask you out, then he will.
What I mean by "means" is, if he has a job/spending money, car/comfortable without a car, using public transportation.
Also, if he asks you how your weekend is/was, what are your plans for the weekend, stuff like that...
I mean, if he wants to know what you do outside of school then he's interested.
Otherwise, just leave it be, go out and live your own life and don't give him more thinking time than he deserves.
Take Care :-)