What does a girl mean if she calls you a creeper?

[Anonymous]

Does it mean he just weird looking and ugly? Or does it have more to do with his actions and awkwardness?

[ArtistBboy]

Creeper: (N) : A man who she is unwilling to date. Welcome to the friendzone, that's why I'm writing dictionary definitions for a living.

*End sarcasm*

Creepy behavior has a negative conotation to it (duh?) So at this point, it's best to save your own sanity and learn from the situation while not pursueing further interaction from her behalf. You don't have to go running for the hills (infact sometimes it's better to stand your ground, especially because...well... because your a guy).

So to answer your quesion, it's from your entire character; actions and awkwardness. It's just your overall "feeling" towards her desires; compared to what you are seeking with her.

~ ArtistBBoy

[Asker]

Thanks BBoy. I got called a creeper and was just kinda put down by it. So I didn't know if it was how I looked or my actions that warranted being called a "creeper."

[ArtistBboy]

Yeah? I've been there and done that also haha.. Maybe they just have bad taste =P

In all honesty, don't let it get you down. It's them doing us a favor of clarifying their interest upfront so that we don't waste an ass-load of time investing in them. Keep your chin up man, if you wanna talk about things let me know ;D

[DanielSan]

creeper = your ugly to her. Hence she can treat you like total sh*t...cause your well...um A CREEPER.

Agreed with artist ...BUT I might add if you are genuinely not being a creeper ( aka staring excessive, doing werid things) and just interested in her then I would consider totally ignoring her...Imeadiately she will wonder what's up. But don't giver her the color of sh*t cause she is just p*ssed cause the creeper no longer likes her cause secretly all the girl like the attention and they all have their own personally creepers they talk about to their girlfriends...its like a must have...every girl has to have her crepper to diss at sleepovers...its a status thing

[ArtistBboy]

I agree ^_^!

[Anonymous]

it means that you make people feel uncomfortable

perhaps you get too close in distance to the girl and invade her space

staring

being awkward

getting too clingy, or thinking your closer to the person than you really are

[DanielSan]

Anonymous...lov that

[ArtistBboy]

I like the list but I'd also like to add some more specifics:

- Gawking in her direction without looking away

- Standing behind her

- Laughing immensely at something that isn't funny

- Fidgeting or acting "cracked out"

- Trying to hide anything

etc

[Anonymous]

It usually has to do with awkwardness. sometimes it just means you are getting to close or personal to soon. maybe backing off a bit on anything to personal will help.

[Asker]

Like we had to do a skit for class, and during it I picked up this girls diary who dropped it, held on to it, and gave it back to her two years later and she falls in love with me. A girl watching said I was a creeper. :(

[DanielSan]

Anonymous...lov that

and btw dude that sounds like a cool skit...I would say she is just plain bitch.

[jrose]

I disafree danielsan- if someone kept MY journal for 2 years I would be creeped out because a) why did you keep something of mine for so long when you could have just given it back right away? and b) my journal is full of my innermost thoughts that I don't share with most people, even those closest to me. So, if someone (guy or girl) takes that and keeps it for a long time, they have a window into my head without me knowing. CREEPY!

[ArtistBboy]

@Jrose: But this is a play, it's not real life; furthermore.. it was a bystander.

@ QA: Dude, are you sure that she wasn't trying to start a conversation? If she wasn't directly involved in the situation, and she took the effort to approach you and call you a creeper; it sounds like she was just giving you a sh*t test while trying to start a conversation. Check this:

Most girls that are "creeped out" will initially ignore you (or try to); then after being annoyed, they will bluntly tell you.

[DanielSan]

@jrose then you must not like any love movies cause its always cute in the movies when stuff like that happens...it was just a skit the guy is not creeper because he came up with a skit idea...pretty creative drama to me atleast...

[Anonymous]

She means you're weird.

It could be a combination of any of the things you listed above.

Good luck.

[Anonymous]

I knew this girl I worked with who always called me a creeper. I would walk up behind her and stand really close, waiting for her to turn around. When she did, she always freaked out. It was hilarious! Other times she'd be staring out a window and I'd come up behind her and slam something down on the counter. She never failed to jump about three feet into the air.

[EddyMetal]

It means she thinks you're creepy, or she was just kidding.

[Anthonylovespie]

That she's a shallow bitch