Guys, how long does it take you to lose interest in a girl?

Anonymous
This guy in my college class that I had a thing for and I had been mirroring each other and he was showing signs of having feelings for me. After we messaged and I realised it could actually go somewhere, i panicked and went shy, didn't really talk to him for the week but did try to message him on Facebook, he replied quite short. I feel that he is upset or disappointed.

Is this a salvageable situation? If it were you, would you be put off? Do guys just loose feelings for girls if they don't see reciprocation?

In this situation he would loose interest and back off.
He would still have feelings.
He would be waiting for me to make a move.
He would be annoyed and confused that I didn't make a move.
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I asked him to do something with me and a friend today, really casually and he said he had to study? He was nice about it and exams are very soon but does that mean he's not interested?
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Thanks everyone for all your help so far! I'm really annoyed at myself for messing this up and I have so little experience with guys that i don't know where to start. On top of that I don't have the confidence to show my interest really openly because I can't be sure that he did really like me!
Guys, how long does it take you to lose interest in a girl?
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